We are two different nations having distinctly different cultures. We separated over 60 years ago and have problems ever since. This does not mean that you or anybody undermines the existence of Pakistan and again start a debate of why Pakistan was created. It was created and now is an independent and free country.
When you say that you have a cousin in India, how many other Pakistanis have relatives living in India - miniscule in number. How many of us Pakistanis have ever visited India and know the culture and traditions being practiced in India. Hardly any, except some who have relatives across the border or who visited one odd time to see a cricket match.
The only way we see India is through Indian movies, but do these movies represent Indian culture. Even the Indians say that these movies do not represent true India in any capacity.
Therefore, when we haven't even visited India, we don not know their culture, do not know how they live and don't even know many more things about India, how can you tell me that we are the same people. We are not the same people. We belong to a different society, a different country and above all we are independent and free. Yes we have our problems and Indians have their problems, so!
I am proud to be a Pakistani and nothing else - period. If you like India so much, go live with your cousin and ask him why does he wear a skull cap to distinguish himself, ask the Kashmiris why do they want freedom from India, ask people in the NE India why do they want freedom from India. You go and stay there.
And if you want to stay here in Pakistan, then please learn to become a Pakistani first before you open your mouth filled with piles.