The hysteria over the 'Ground Zero mosque' was not created by the Islamists.
The Koran burning pastor was not turned into an international celebrity by Islamists.
The 'Obama is a Muslim' campaign and the practise of always referring to Obama as 'Barack Hussein Obama' or BHO was not created by the Islamists.
The innumerable TV shows that always show Arabs/Muslims as terrorists are not made by Islamists.
You are right that the media has turned it into a war on Islam, but we all know which media is the culprit here.
Actually, much of the hysteria, especially the idiot Florida Qur'an burner, came about
not by what they proposed, but by the worldwide reaction of the Muslim community. When annoying pests like him pipe up, it's best to ignore, rather than threatening death and rioting.
The media attention expanded because of the threatened reaction, not the proposed episode itself.
It was initially picked up by some local paper; the news went viral, and the whole thing snowballed due to attention from world-wide media.
In the U.S., Christianity is mocked mercilessly. Crosses in urine, dung on Mary. Google "Jesus mockery" to see tens of thousands of examples of terrible imagery. We ignore it... thus, no fame is achieved by the "artists" who do such things.
Muslim terrorists in movies... Yes, there have been examples. But it is actually politically incorrect these days, and in post 9-11 "action thrillers" you'll often see goofy German or ex-communist terrorists rather than Muslims.
I don't deny these exist. But media
outside the U.S., when they portray CIA or U.S. military - honestly, can you say they are even-handed and accurate? The CIA and U.S. military are favorite evils in many Turkish and other movies, and like "camel-riding Arab terrorists", they are a ridiculous twist with little semblance to reality.
On your last sentence - to deny that the international media is not as complicit as hollywood in this cultural schism is to be intellectually dishonest.
I'll conclude this long post by saying this is a disturbing thread, and hate is a strong word. Disagree with policies, hope for better relations, these are good. Hate is not. I don't hate Iran. I don't hate Muslims. I hate very few, and it is reserved on a case-by-case basis, not lumping all people into a group. That is intellectual laziness.
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