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Whats the best way to approach your crush ?

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Social media has glorified everything.
Not just social media but watching too much highly rated Bollywood mediocrity does that to people i.e. go rabid in love.

Having a crush is normal, it is what happens next that differentiates mediocrity from the honorable.

Humans are made to like and love, attract and be attracted to but what differentiates us from monkeys and dogs is to be civil, respectful and honorable about it.
 
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Seriously this crush, gf, bf, and piyar mohabbat mere to samjh main nahi aty.

Baaji ye is zamaane ky bacho ki baaty hy... aap or me rehny dety hy in sb ko... ye btay konsy paary me hy . :lol:
 
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Its actually the process of planting a person in your life who will (in future) crush your feeling. Hence we call it “crush”. Baat rahe phondi ki to its natural :P.

Btw phondi is checking out someone. Doesn’t mean he is a crush. You can checkout any one. crush is cmpletely different thing then phondi.

Who can explain it better than you. :D major pun :D

Baaji ye is zamaane ky bacho ki baaty hy... aap or me rehny dety hy in sb ko... ye btay konsy paary me hy . :lol:

Hum isi zamana ke bus Zara mature :D

Don’t you call me old :butcher:

Not just social media but watching too much highly rated Bollywood mediocrity does that to people i.e. go rabid in love.

Having a crush is normal, it is what happens next that differentiates mediocrity from the honorable.

Humans are made to like and love, attract and be attracted to but what differentiates us from monkeys and dogs is to be civil, respectful and honorable about it.

Mujhe to Bollywood bhi samjh nahi aty.
Mujhe to yeh bhi samjh nahi aty why girls think salman khan is handsome.

And to last part, wohi to, I mean I don’t deny the existence of love but perhaps this social media has turned into gf and bf culture and I can’t digest it
 
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Not even in a single post I directly targeted you. ;)
I know but can u both please keep your rigidity nd complexes away from my thread . Its really annoying to read you guys . Its hurting our eyes . Its a humble request , Thankyou : )
 
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For girls I'd say never make it seem like you're after anyone, hope it helps.
Teenagers overflowing with hormones and little discretion and then media further debilitates all ethics, dignity & grace. Teenage pregnancy is the huge issue in the west and this filth is slowly infiltrating into the east.
I'm thankful to Allah and after Him to my parents that I was kept busy all my life until I got happily married :)
I don't mind getting married, the problem is getting married to someone you hardly know. If you can raise issues with Love or love marriage, we should also look into issues related to arranged marriage... First thing we need to get straight is that love is not HARAM; there are number of cases where there is abuse in marriages or marriages where the relation of the husband and wife is really bad, and in some to the point where they hardly talk... It's actually hard to find a happy arranged married couple. Thank fully, I wouldn't have to worry.
 
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I know but can u both please keep your rigidity nd complexes away from my thread . Its really annoying to read you guys . Its hurting our eyes . Its a humble request , Thankyou : )

Sweetheart, as long as, no member is using uncivil words or derailing the thread, everyone is welcome to post in a thread. You get that? Good.
 
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Who can explain it better than you. :D major pun :D

Well i have a past..... ye 2000 saal pehle ki baat hy.... ap us time ni the idhr shaayd matric ky exams me busy the...

Hum isi zamana ke bus Zara mature :D

Zamaana change ni hota log change ho jaty hy... wesy b Pashto me kisi velly bandy ne is lafz ko kaafi achy se explain kia ky “zama-na”, which in urdu means “mjh se”. Zamana ham se hy hm zamaane se nahe. Isko zara dubara parhy even mjhy b ni aya samaj ky kia lika mene... :P

Don’t you call me old :butcher:

Sach kaha buzargo ne qayamat ki nishaani hy sach bolna aisy he hoga jaisy haath se chaand chupaana... mushkil, naa-mumkin, :angel:
 
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Love peer. Please. Guru are south of the border. We Pakistani are very particular.
This is all fun. I am joking. Hope u find what you are looking for.
Kkk love peer ..

Hum sub aap k murshid . Zarurat parny py zarur mashwara karen gy :D
 
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@Well.wisher true story

My friend (male) liked a girl at university. She was always in a hijab and never spoke to any men. But he just fell for her face and her character. He couldnt speak to her. So after much deliberation he wrote a long letter. Plucked up the courage to approach her and gave her the letter stating please Gove this to your father. She took the letter but didnt reply. Her father was no longer in this world and she went home and shared it with her mother.
In the letter he wrote that he doesnt know her but loves her character etc. He told the truth that he was a simple guy from a humble home and is hard working and will make sure he takes care of their daughter. The letter was so sincere that today they have 2 kids. He is an optician and she is the queen of the house.
 
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Hum isi zamana ke bus Zara mature :D
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Baaji maturity is in short supply. Yeh badaltay huay zamanay ke rang hain...it's gonna take a concerted effort of parenting, culture, and education to revert back to older times.
 
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Zamaana change ni hota log change ho jaty hy... wesy b Pashto me kisi velly bandy ne is lafz ko kaafi achy se explain kia ky “zama-na”, which in urdu means “mjh se”. Zamana ham se hy hm zamaane se nahe. Isko zara dubara parhy even mjhy b ni aya samaj ky kia lika mene... :P

I like it. I like it....
Well i have a past..... ye 2000 saal pehle ki baat hy.... ap us time ni the idhr shaayd matric ky exams me busy the



Sach kaha buzargo ne qayamat ki nishaani hy sach bolna aisy he hoga jaisy haath se chaand chupaana... mushkil, naa-mumkin, :angel:

Han main bhi bus soch rahi old citizen khud ko declare kar don ab :(
 
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I don't mind getting married, the problem is getting married to someone you hardly know. If you can raise issues with Love or love marriage, we should also look into issues related to arranged marriage... First thing we need to get straight is that love is not HARAM; there are number of cases where there is abuse in marriages or marriages where the relation of the husband and wife is really bad, and in some to the point where they hardly talk... It's actually hard to find a happy arranged married couple. Thank fully, I wouldn't have to worry.
Well go for a hybrid approach. I met someone, came to know about her and we both liked each other so we talked to our parents, got the target locked (engagement/nikkah) and launched the family i.e. Rukhsati.
 
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Sweetheart, as long as, no member is using uncivil words or derailing the thread, everyone is welcome to post in a thread. You get that? Good.
But I have a really strict standard of what I really want to read nd follow ..
I donot approve rigidity, hope u understand .
 
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