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Seriously this crush, gf, bf, and piyar mohabbat mere to samjh main nahi aty.
Teenagers overflowing with hormones and little discretion and then media further debilitates all ethics, dignity & grace. Teenage pregnancy is the huge issue in the west and this filth is slowly infiltrating into the east.
I'm thankful to Allah and after Him to my parents that I was kept busy all my life until I got happily married :)
 
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Teenagers overflowing with hormones and little discretion and then media further debilitates all ethics, dignity & grace. Teenage pregnancy is the huge issue in the west and this filth is slowly infiltrating into the east.
I'm thankful to Allah and after Him to my parents that I was kept busy all my life until I got happily married :)

kewl bhi to lagna hai social media pe
 
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I am of same age.
At-Tirmidhi Hadith 3096 Narrated by Anas ibn Malik: Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said, "When a man marries he has fulfilled half of the deen; so let him fear Allah regarding the remaining half." (web source: islamhelpline.net)
Nikah is also sunnat so just do it as early as possible.
For me, I am not dating(never have:sad:) , Will just wait for parents to decide when and whom. I am simple. Though, my psychiatrist suggests me to get a gf.
Apnay psychiatrist ki baat maan lo...khush raho ge initially...baad mein baal nocho ge.
I love philosophy too. And International Relations. But doing engg.
For women, studing in arts subjects is actually good. They don't have the burden to run home financially rather their husbands do.
Yeah I get it...my concern was based on my experiences here in US. I did my higher education here and sort of grew up here too. Here it's different bcuz generally both men and women work. I have a lot of gori friends who ended up majoring in communications, english, political science, etc. then they struggled to find a job.

...but u r right, it's different circumstances for the OP.
 
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Well parents, schools and media need to fulfil their responsibilities. Govt needs to reign in the media.

Parenting is a major factor. Then they learn to handle social media.
 
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Ek to mujhe is crush ke samjh nahi aty.
Poondi ko English main crush kehte na?

Its actually the process of planting a person in your life who will (in future) crush your feeling. Hence we call it “crush”. Baat rahe phondi ki to its natural :P.

Btw phondi is checking out someone. Doesn’t mean he is a crush. You can checkout any one. crush is cmpletely different thing then phondi.
 
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Parenting is a major factor. Then they learn to handle social media.
There is a huge generation gap. Right now I'm fully abreast with latest techs but and know more than most teenagers but who knows what happens in the next 13-15 yrs when I'll have teenage monkeys of my own (inshaAllah :-)). I think govt needs to launch an awareness program for parents. We can also help in our individual capacities.
 
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