I agreed about on conflict, Sir.
But, I have seen three decades and can describe as below:
1990 -1999: Kashmir situation was too worst and Indian leaders were desperately wanted to talk with Pakistan at without any condition. They were ready to talk on Kashmir as well. Yeah, it was not about to handover kashmir to Pakistan but find some solutions. But after kargil WAR in 1999, everything got changed.
2001-2010: Some progress happened during Atal-Musharraf era but finally failed. Also, some dialogues happened but few said incidents happened in India (26/11). it caused for killing any chances for new development/talk.
20010-2020: In indian diplomacy, one cause is added " Terror and talk can't go together". During the congress time nothing happened and no progress and after Modi, all talk options are gone.
Moral of the story: : We can't go for full war but still wants to fight. We can never get each other lands (J&K/PAk kashmir including gilgit baltistan) but wish to get it. Our leaders will do lip service and enjoy their life by doing lot of corruptions. And, finally innocent people will be killed and both armies will loose their Man's & their family will suffer.
worng Info Sir- at least google it - International news source. are they killing or not during cross firing.