You have Hollywood "American made" movies which many times completely destroyed White House in them, major monuments and cities. Generals, Ministers even Vice presidents acting as state enemies destroying USA. You see them burning their flags and what now. Similarly in Bollywood you have movies like Aiyer which show corruption in top ranking officers (general ranks) of Indian army . And it was a success in India. Similarly another John Abraham movie where they shown many Raw agents being killed by China in the first scene.
I have not watched Dhoop ki dewaar neither I read the book. But I think we should be more open towards media. These books, serials, movies means nothing. They don't damage your patriotisms. They are just a mean of business and that's it...