I don't enjoy the misery of people where my mother comes from, I love all my Indian first cousins. I think looking back, both Pakistan & India has suffered post 1947. I wish we can have open border, I wish I could see what life was like in Khujwa village in Bihar where my family is from, where we used to remember the first 10 days of Muharram with such fervor in the last few hundred years. All our land in Khujwa was forcefully taken from my family by Hindu mobs, & my family was forced to leave for Patna in 1947. When mom's brother had a business in Patna, but he was forced to live in Delhi after the conditions in Patna had deteriorated significantly. I have a deep respect & love for India. My family comes from a very modest background in India, so we think like the common man. I have deep respect & admiration for India's diversity & history. Which is why it saddens me that UP, which was once the cradle for Indian Muslims, has become nothing but a ghetto. I know exactly what I'm saying. Yes, Delhi & Hyderabad have been successes for Muslims, but most of the Indian Muslims are still deprived & underrepresented. So, don't accuse me of not knowing what I'm talking about.