Hyde
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Man...!!!!You are suggesting as if we are almost breaking up!!!
I cant even imagine that!!!
She was the girl who spent sleepless night by the side of my bed in the hospital when I had the bike accident,defying all the rules of the hospital...she was the one who changed her allocation branch in the company from Chennai to Mumbai,just to be with me.....We dont talk about it,but our families know about us....I just cant think of a World without her.....Its just that she sometimes feels a bit too much insecure(as in this case,the presence of mesmerizing Bushy )...I want her to feel that i will be out there for her...no matter WHAT.....I just dont know how to go about it..I just go at a loss of words when I am too close to her........
buy a doll and gift to her tonight...... try to ignore her silly remarks..... try to give her a confidence. She needs confidence and assurance from you that you can only provide to her. Just be a nice lad in front of her. If she does not like you to talk with "bushy" why mesmerize too much with her? Remember you are a man.... you are the one who will provide her security and assurance. Your chapter is not of a naughty and immodest lad who will be gaining useless Joy by tricking his girl friend. You are to mature your relationships in the future as is apparent from your posts. You are very serious so if you want to maintain relationships with her you probably will have to comprise more in this relationship (considering the lack of trust in your GF). Just not indulge yourself with Bushy if she does not like it and I am sure she will return to you soon. If she is truly in lvoe with you.... she will understand
I don't know man what to say...... all i can say is you apparently are truly in love with her and if she is serious about your relationship - she will understand you. In love you have to compromise sometimes it is the responsibility of both to trust each other. If either parties are not willing to do so.......Its better to terminate the relationship before the fruits are sour.