Mixed marriages?

[Umair Nawaz]

No, not at all. The ones in the West coast seem very ignorant but the ones in the Toronto area are good people from my experience. The girls I know here like Pakistanis but the guys don't seem to like us.

u know these indian girls usually have a thing for Pakistani Charming men.........Even though most of them initially hate us but when they get to know us most of them have a general opinion that we r better then Indian men.

Even ISI takes advantage of this and uses them as honeypots and take out secret info....Do u remember their female diplomat in Islamabad who was caught in 2009??

 

[Umair Nawaz]

Well this reminds me of one of my experiences on facebook with an Indian Christian Girl living in Toronto her name was Sharlin Paul from Ahmedabad she was alone there and working in a high profile MNC and her entire family was in Ahmedabad.....She was very much an anti muslim considering the prevailing situation of Indian Society. There was a project that same Canadian firm was doing in Pak....So she had to work from Canada with us....Thats how i came to know abt her. Later after project she still remain in touch with me in particular. And then i noticed she is starting to really get close and opening up with me....And she did admitted that before she meet me she thought we Pak r junglies and Blah Blah and did said u seem better then our men.

Although i sensed that this is growing in more then a Friendship from her side so i started to put on a hold on that by saying her that i consider u like my sister followed by a brif lecture on our values as a Muslim!!!!!!!

Thank God she was mature enough to understand....But said she really wished if her life partner will be like me

Anyways later on she started dating another man who was an indian and a Christian but told him to get in touch with me through internet and learn from me.....and they got married and even today both of them r in touch with me and if there comes a problem b/w them the Guy usually asks me for help to convince her as he says she listens to u more.

Anyways im very happy for them......All ended up very well.

 

[bronxbull]

somehow only guys tell these stories on the internet about how that girl is totally into me or was and how i chose my mazhab over the girl and such usual heroism.

anyway,i would have never wanted to marry a non vegetarian,so forget inter religion or caste and my bengali husband is a vegetarian cause his mom is.

he still goes out and get his fish,is all good.

The issue always ends up with where the children would belong.

 

[Leader]

No, not at all. The ones in the West coast seem very ignorant but the ones in the Toronto area are good people from my experience. The girls I know here like Pakistanis but the guys don't seem to like us.



It's easier said then done. I don't want her to be disowned by her family just for me. Unfortunately, life isn't a bollywood movie.



Lol he doesn't know me personally, my girl thought he would be ok so she told him my name and my background. Now her whole family is upset.

LOL excuses, go see a mirror and tell yourself that. its your best excuse to get out of the relationship and simply because you are more a coward, and less a lover !

 

[Umair Nawaz]

somehow only guys tell these stories on the internet about how that girl is totally into me or was and how i chose my mazhab over the girl and such usual heroism.

anyway,i would have never wanted to marry a non vegetarian,so forget inter religion or caste and my bengali husband is a vegetarian cause his mom is.

he still goes out and get his fish,is all good.

The issue always ends up with where the children would belong.

people do that because u dont know them personally enough to know what their actual nature is.

 

[Karachiite]

@Karachiite contact rafi Bahis brother.. Unlike u he had gutts n married the indian Sikh girl... Our bhabi...

Lol its not about guts, trust me its not as easy as it sounds.

Religion - Koi nahin !
Marrying an Indian - One of the Enemy !
Kashmir kiii Aaazadii tukkk teriii Shadiii suspend ho gaiii haiii - Keh diyaa na eiik baar humm neii !
Khair jokes aside - if you're not religious & shes not religious - You guys shouldn't have a problem one way or the other - Go for it !
I also know of a Sikh Girl marrying a Pakistani Guy - Their families never accepted it but they're happy !
And if Larkaa-Larkiii Raaaziii tou kiyaa kaheii gaaa Qazii ?

Haha if anything I'm bringing the two countries together .

Are you serious about marrying her though? Like I dated a sikh girl for like 5 months and her dad went ballistic talking about throwing her out if she ain't end it. I didn't know if I was really committed to her so I was ok with ending it. IMO its up to how committed you are, sikhs are a lot more strict especially when it comes to us Muslims, they don't like us much.

I don't want to marry her immediately but I want to eventually settle down with her. I asked her if she wants to break up and she said she loves me too much and can't imagine being with anyone else And yeah trust they don't like Pakistanis at all.

Be Careful , Bro....
I am sure you heard about a love story where this Canadian Sikh girl went to India and fell in love with this Muslim Rickshaw driver and Married him in spite of their warning. They had her butchered and left lying in a ditch. The Assassins left the guy all hacked up and thought he was dead, but he somehow survived. When the news came out the Canadian Govt. went after the Sikh Father ad Brothers but I don't know the outcome of that case. Maybe you know as you are Canadian.
I am curious since you said "your father is Muslim" but did not say anything about your mother. Does that mean that you are a product of mixed marriage yourself ? In which case you would know better than anyone else here how mixed marriages pan out.

I heard about this story but I'm not sure if the guy was Muslim. Don't think her family is like that though. And yeah my father is Muslim and my mom is Catholic. But its not the same as both families accepted the marriage and were happy with it. Marrying a Sikh is much different then marrying a Christian.

 

[Umair Nawaz]

LOL excuses, go see a mirror and tell yourself that. its your best excuse to get out of the relationship and simply because you are more a coward, and less a lover !

What abt Ayub Khosa?

 

[Leader]

What abt Ayub Khosa?

well he termed about this kind of lover as "do takkay kay ashiq".. I didnt want to say, so I just pasted the picture.

 

[bronxbull]

will u let one of ur kids choose to be amritdhari sikh?

 

[Abhishek_]

Then ask her to become a Muslim case closed......Lets see how much she really loves u.

that's a dangerous question, one that shouldn't be asked. what if he gets asked to convert?
it is best to leave religion out of such matters. each do their own thing. my 2 cents.

It's easier said then done. I don't want her to be disowned by her family just for me. Unfortunately, life isn't a bollywood movie.

Lol he doesn't know me personally, my girl thought he would be ok so she told him my name and my background. Now her whole family is upset.

my take: continue the relation normally but don't push for marriage. let them see that yours is a stable relationship and you are responsible about your own future. education, job, house should be your immediate goals; not marriage (that will come automatically)

 

[Bratva]

@Karachiite contact rafi Bahis brother.. Unlike u he had gutts n married the indian Sikh girl... Our bhabi...

Na kar,,, apna Rafi?

 

[Armstrong]

Na kar,,, apna Rafi?

Lo apneii @Rafi Bhai tou Joruu keii Ghulaam haiin - Jo Bhabi nei keh diyaa woh saar aankhoon peiii !

We're talking about his brother !

 

[liall]

My friend (indian Hindu) married this white blonde Canadian and there seems to be no problems at all. I hope this guy gets his love ^_^

 

[Norphisor]

Can mixed marriages work? I'm dating an Indian Sikh girl and she's very open minded like myself but her brother found out about us and prohibited her from dating me. He told her it wont work out in the future. I knew a Sikh girl who married a Pakistani guy and they seem to be happy. It's just sad that religion can become a huge obstacle in love.

Hello bro sorry to interrupt you and your love but watch your mouth you may commit shirk.
You love that much that you can break an Islamic rule(I am not saying you are doing same thing) for her then try to ask her will she become muslim for her beloved boyfriends sake.
Better to make her muslim for your and her afterlife.GOOD LUCK

 

[Iggy]

Can mixed marriages work? I'm dating an Indian Sikh girl and she's very open minded like myself but her brother found out about us and prohibited her from dating me. He told her it wont work out in the future. I knew a Sikh girl who married a Pakistani guy and they seem to be happy. It's just sad that religion can become a huge obstacle in love.

Dude seriously?? Why should religion be an issue in the first place?? Why you care about her religion if you love her.. Go for her and talk to your brother.. Tell him that its your choice and he have no right to interfere in your personal matter.. I have known many inter religious people married in my state and most of them are happily living.. For God sake you are living in Canada.. Dont let people choose everything for you.. In the end its you who will have to spend rest of the life with your partner.. Make sure you choose one you like!!