Mixed marriages?

[IBRIS]

Yes just like Punjabi girls usually has this thing for Pakhtoon charming men here in Pakistan and thinks Pakhtoon men are better than Punjabi men

That's a myth every race would like to believe that just because they have encountered 1 or 2 individuals from other ethnicity having there personal preferences shouldn't be considered as the whole race thinks the same way., I have friends here Pakistani Punjabi girls and Indian Punjabi girls who would tare you a new A$$hole verbally if you try to tell them that. They'd rather prefer Punjabi companion due to similar culture/language/food/upbringing.

 

[TheJewverine]

If the brother is not liking it, you can bet their parents, uncles/aunts, etc. aren't either. Lol, nothing to do with beta or whatever, it can get messy.

It has everything to do with that mindset. Your whole statement proves that, you keep saying "what will the family think?" WHO CARES? What next? Is he going to sit down when he pees because she doesn't want the toilet seat to be left up anymore? Please. If she can't back up the OP in his decision, she's not the right girl. A girl that values her families wishes over yours is a relationship that will only end in the OP's tears.

The Jew with the creepy avatar is right... Man up .. N stop being a b...!

Admit it, you love my avatar.

 

[DESERT FIGHTER]

Yes just like Punjabi girls usually has this thing for Pakhtoon charming men here in Pakistan and thinks Pakhtoon men are better than Punjabi men

Not really man.. I'm Baluch n have lived in Punjab... Haha

 

[Raja.Pakistani]

My friend is dating a sikh girl, i told him to stop. But he has gone lallu for this girl and does what she says like a lallu.

and what she say?

lagta ha app ka dost zan/ran mureed type guy

Ishq ka bhoot jitni juldi charta ha utni juldi utar b jata ha

 

[Airboss786]

Be Careful , Bro....
I am sure you heard about a love story where this Canadian Sikh girl went to India and fell in love with this Muslim Rickshaw driver and Married him in spite of their warning. They had her butchered and left lying in a ditch. The Assassins left the guy all hacked up and thought he was dead, but he somehow survived. When the news came out the Canadian Govt. went after the Sikh Father ad Brothers but I don't know the outcome of that case. Maybe you know as you are Canadian.

I am curious since you said "your father is Muslim" but did not say anything about your mother. Does that mean that you are a product of mixed marriage yourself ? In which case you would know better than anyone else here how mixed marriages pan out.

Your facts, as to the Rickshaw driver's 'religious beliefs', as you stated are incorrect.
He was NOT a Muslim!

Anyway, here you go!

Jaswinder Kaur Sidhu - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

 

[Chronos]

It will work if you want it to work, supportive parents/family helps but its not a must. I am married to a muslim girl.

You pseudo Secular traitor

:O

Her Brother is right and even Islam doesnt allow that be it man or woman. There were some exceptions for men but that too right now seems non practical.

Man too many people acting as spoilers. Let the lovers be regardless of race/religion/gender

You have one life and you are willing to sabotage your happiness over a god that may or may not exist?

Come on people

That's a myth every race would like to believe that just because they have encountered 1 or 2 individuals from other ethnicity having there personal preferences shouldn't be considered as the whole race thinks the same way., I have friends here Pakistani Punjabi girls and Indian Punjabi girls who would tare you a new A$$hole verbally if you try to tell them that. They'd rather prefer Punjabi companion due to similar culture/language/food/upbringing.

This myth is usually perpetuated by the Men too.

For obvious ego stroking reasons.

 

[Chronos]

No, not at all. The ones in the West coast seem very ignorant but the ones in the Toronto area are good people from my experience. The girls I know here like Pakistanis but the guys don't seem to like us.

@Karachiite Let me guess, typical Punjabi male machismo thinking they are 'all' that. We have them here in New Zealand too.

It's just the typical Indian male thing, and their egos are coddled by their mothers.

Somehow they conflate their ethnicity with their ego.

As I said before, when my South Indian friend was going out with his Pakistani girlfriend, they sorted out their education, finances, and their household.

I would give you the same advice. because when you get cut off from her family, then you can support yourself.

I have a final advice for people here.

Zealous allegiance to your ethnicity, religion can only bring you unhappiness. The world is complicated, it in shades of grey, so you need to mold your beliefs to reflect the fluctuations in life.

My personal viewpoint is that I never will allow my so called culture, religion to stand in the way of my personal happiness.

 

[KingMamba]

Your facts, as to the Rickshaw driver's 'religious beliefs', as you stated are incorrect.
He was NOT a Muslim!

Anyway, here you go!

Jaswinder Kaur Sidhu - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Yeah they were same religion but he was lower caste.

 

[Hindustani]

Yes it can, I've been dating a pakistani girl for almost four years now. My family still doesn't know about her, but her parents know about me and have no objection. However my parents are open minded, I just haven't had the guts to tell them lol

Oh and btw I'm (well my dad is from Jammu and mom is from Ambala, Haryana) my girl's parents are from Peshawar. Our families literally have nothing in common, but ethnic and religious shit doesn't matter between her and I.

 

[Umair Nawaz]

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Man too many people acting as spoilers. Let the lovers be regardless of race/religion/gender

You have one life and you are willing to sabotage your happiness over a god that may or may not exist?

Come on people


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Shut up.............We Muslim have our own Moral and Social values..U as a non Muslim, is not qualified to poke yr nose in our social/moral reforms/values.

Emotionally driven people usually suffer more.........

 

[Chronos]

Shut up.............We Muslim have our own Moral and Social values..U as a non Muslim, is not qualified to poke yr nose in our social/moral reforms/values.

Emotionally driven people usually suffer more.........

That's what religion usually cmes down to.

Bereft of reason, they turn to emotional explanations.

Yes it can, I've been dating a pakistani girl for almost four years now. My family still doesn't know about her, but her parents know about me and have no objection. However my parents are open minded, I just haven't had the guts to tell them lol

Oh and btw I'm (well my dad is from Jammu and mom is from Ambala, Haryana) my girl's parents are from Peshawar. Our families literally have nothing in common, but ethnic and religious shit doesn't matter between her and I.

Wow. Haven't seen you in a long time.

 

[Umair Nawaz]

That's what religion usually cmes down to.

Bereft of reason, they turn to emotional explanations.

Well Islam isnt abt emotionally Driven people nor encourages this act. So by yr saying of Religions ''usually comes down to....'' in our context is not right. the indian Muslims or PDf members r not the only nor r referred as best Muslim examples.

 

[Chronos]

Well Islam isnt abt emotionally Driven people nor encourages this act. So by yr saying of Religions ''usually comes down to....'' in our context is not right. the indian Muslims or PDf members r not the only nor r referred as best Muslim examples.

Let me explain, I don't have any problem with Pakistan being an Islamic country.

But I do distrust, and not encourage role of any religion in Indian politics or government.

Many of the Indian backward thinking comes from Indian religions. Hindus = superstitons

Muslims= intimidating their own women to not to go to higher studies etc.

What India needs is a rationalist bend to it's society.

 

[Proudpakistaniguy]

Yes it can, I've been dating a pakistani girl for almost four years now. My family still doesn't know about her, but her parents know about me and have no objection. However my parents are open minded, I just haven't had the guts to tell them lol

Oh and btw I'm (well my dad is from Jammu and mom is from Ambala, Haryana) my girl's parents are from Peshawar. Our families literally have nothing in common, but ethnic and religious shit doesn't matter between her and I.

You are dating with Pakistani girl from Peshawar. Is this joke ? lol You are probably talking about virtual GF . Pakistani Muslim girls don't like to date with anyone before marriage let alone dating with non Muslim Hindustani. Is she another veena malik? Another Joke is her family know that she is dating with Hindustani and they dont have any problem with it.

I am sure you also don't have any problem if your sister go for dating with Pakistani/Irani/white guys because you are open mind but that is also not acceptable for Muslims. Muslims have love for religion/God and this love is greater than any other worldly love. Why we should date with someone belong to a country which we don't like and consider it enemy country

 

[airmarshal]

If you are Muslim you have to play by the rules of Islam. You can do anything you want & who can stop you? But here is what Islam says regarding marriage of a Muslim woman or a man.

A Muslim man can only marry a Muslim, Christian or Jewish woman. For woman for other religions she has to convert to Islam.

A Muslim woman cant marry man of any other religion except Islam.

Call Islam narrow minded or whatever. Thats the rule.

I dont want to be villain. Wish you all the best.