Turkish culture though is much more Liberal. I felt in Europe and at home when I was there, it didn't feel foreign. I really liked the tolerant aspect of it. I'm a pretty Conservative guy (religiously) and it was nice to see Conservative and Liberal people coexist without conflict. That comes from tolerance. We don't have that tolerance in Pakistan. That's the main difference between our and thier culture which you could also term as our and there "Islam" if you like.
Exactly. Look daily I am astounded at the stupendous hypocracy at display amongst Pakistan in UK. There is one million of us here. Nobody forced us to come here. Nobody forces us to live here. Our parents with no education, mostly village peasants, poor and disconnected from outside world had the temerity to cross half way around the globe to land in a alien society in UK for
money.
Today their children are relatively educated, economically better off, connected with the world. Yet they choose to continue to live in UK. That is a elective decision. They are choosing to live in a secular, liberal UK. That is one million Pakistan's who
choose to live in secular, liberal, evil society. They could and with far more ease move back to Islamic republic in Pakistan then their parents did when they moved to secular UK. But they don't. That is in fact the best form of
validation of secularism you will ever get. The temporal needs supercede religious yearing. That is a objective fact. What British-Pakistani's demonstrate perhaps unwittingly is that being a Muslim and secularism are
compatible. This is manifested in the mere fact that they continue to live in UK.
For me Turkey is refreshing. For it has applied the lesson that British-Pakistani's
practice [live in secular country by choice] at home. Instead of catching banana boats to Europe they have brought Europe to Turkey. Which is why my soul felt most at ease in Turkey.
In Pakistan they do the opposite. Croak about Islam 24/7. Then try to grab the first truck heading to Europe as illegal migrants.