Pakistan's actions occurred in the midst of an ongoing war against India and internally against a terrorist organization that was involved in its own atrocities against West Pakistanis, Biharis and pro-Pakistani Bengalis in the span of a few months. I'm not by any means saying those actions were acceptable, but there was a context & limited time frame in which they occurred.
India's occupation of J&K is going on 7 plus decades, and India and many Indians show absolutely no signs of basic human decency in supporting (at least in principle) the peaceful settlement of a dispute by letting the Kashmiris vote in a UN led referendum and choose between independence, India or Pakistan.
Most Pakistanis recognize that any atrocities committed by the Pakistani Army or other pro-Pakistan groups in 1971 were unacceptable and will criticize the refusal of Bhutto and other Pakistani leaders to share power with East Pakistani leaders and accept the election results.
Where is India's acceptance of her wrongs? Where is India & Indian's acceptance of the moral, just and democratic principal of plebiscite to resolve the J&K dispute and an end to occupation?
So long as Indians cannot even bring themselves to support the principle of a UN held plebiscite, you can't talk about basic human decency and compare yourselves to Pakistanis. Most Pakistanis have accepted the mistakes made in 1971 (our media & academic discourse is full of references to 1971 and what repercussions mistakes such as those made in 1971 can bring) - India still has not accepted, let alone rectify, her faults in J&K.
Pakistan's actions did not occur in the midst of a war with India. The war with India started after the, to borrow Pakistanis word, genocide on Bengalis.
I also find the double standards interesting. You mention Pakistan's actions against 'terrorists'. You reject the same statement from Indians. It is literally the same. India acts with lethal force against terrorists who have been involved in atrocities against other Indians (namely Kashmiri Pandits, but also others).
In essence, what I see is that you are quick to pardon your sins and readily come up with 'context' that in your mind justifies the situation without affording others the same courtesy.