two ladies, levina and sidak ( the russian name ), have given you suggestions above... make use of them.
please do not mind levina's joke about me liking the actress huma queshi.
also, you seem to be a genuine person.
for your friends, i will ask two
sensible men from hyderabad to give you suggestions to give your friends...
@The_Showstopper and
@takeiteasy .
i understand your concern about gurgaon... it has issues which have been highlighted in that film i spoke of... those two indian male members were wrongly showing as if gurgaon is the most cosmopolitan place in the world... it is not... i as a man would hesitate living in gurgaon.
gurgaon is basically a new township that has been built to house some of the relatively new computer and services industry of india... but the areas surrounding that place are quite backward and it is mostly those backward people who have given gurgaon this fearsome reputation.
you can consider gurgaon to be some place in pakistan which is not the big cities - islamabad, lahore, karachi... with just a touch more extreme rate of crime.
you must enquire with that institution if it is possible for you to shift to other cities like hyderabad or bangalore or even delhi.
i will ask another lady,
@Blue_Eyes , who lives in north india to give you suggestions... she is as young as i think you are ( early 20's ?? ).