I briefly thought that "she" was actually a dude doing the equivalent of cyber cross dressing. But the fact that quite a few on the forum seem to know her and seem to corespond with her one on one via email and such off the forum made me grudgingly consider the prospect that she might actually be a she (mind you, I'm still not convinced; its the Internet man .....)
I do find her mood swings more perimenopausal than juvenile to be honest. I'm in my second MBBS now and we've started clinical rotations now. Gynec and psych both being on the menu, so to speak.
She claims she's a granny, but I put her sometimes flirty sometimes hands-off posts (its a female thing, the anonymity of the internet just kind of gives both extremes more wiggle room) as those of someone who's been around the block and wants to have some fun, but when the prospect of fun actually becomes a serious possibility, gets the proverbial conditioned societal cold feet.
Calling a 20-something guy "kiddo" is another sure-shot giveaway of a mature woman who is not yet old and still socially active. It signifies talking on even terms in terms of man and woman yet endeavors to assert dominance of seniority. A proper granny would use terms that more closely reflect matriachal cues like "son" or "beta" or "puttar" ......
I've marked her on my reply as well as she's one of the personalities here who have piqued my interest. An interest she claims she does not appreciate. Well, within the bounds of the rules, I am not here for her appreciation (not online definitely).