Darkinsky is a major part of the problem and his blithe attitude towards the sacrifices and suffering of others is testimony of the fact that racism pervades urdu speakers like a black plague. Its in all of us, all our relatives particularly but not limited to those who support the MQM.
In my paper on ethnic tensions in Pakistan which I haven't completed still being an idiot I recognized at least 3 common traits/features/tools the person who is part of this syndrome uses (some things are copy-pasted):
1) Victim syndrome: Ie we are the victims no matter what-we had no role in any injustice meeted out to anyone else.
2) Self-gratification: We had a disproportionate role in the formation of Pakistan. We did everything for Pakistan
*Self gratification mixed with a high level of self-victimization can later lead to seperatism which is covered extensively on page () of this report. Only a spark is needed for this.
3) Deflection of responsibility/Shifting blame: The us vs them syndrome is fixed in the minds of the racist. No matter how hard a person tries it is hard to make a person stop thinking along such lines. Therefore for every issue there has to be a scapegoat which is depending on the stage.
It is very hard to pull @
darkinsky away from racism and hatred. Most of all its harder to make him look with and take part in some serious self-criticism. I (we nationalists too) are beyond the race issue. No matter how much I tell him urdu speakers have a higher gdp per capita than anyone else in the country (13,000 ruppees more than Punjabis who are second according to H&H), that he should go to interior sindh and see the crippling penury of the people... he will not believe me. Its because the identity is firmly entrenched in his head like the entangled roots of an aging tree (as is the concept itself) and he cannot question it.
Ethnic identity has to be broken down and we can play a role in it if we try, first step is being nonchalant about it and criticizing the role of our people in issues. I apologize to the Bengalis for what urdu speakers did and consider Bengalis a part of Pakistan.
But I will not let the same happen to anyone else. Also @
darkinsky I can say Pashtuns were responsible too (Niazi, Tikka Khan)... but then will it stop you from shifting the blame and deflecting everything against muhajirs and their attrocities to the poorer folk? For example the proverty prevalence in rural Pakistan is 36% for Pakistan. 8000 schools in (mostly rural) Sindh are ghost schools. While muhajirs sit in shiny cities and have nara's like gaon tumhara, sheher hamara for them (for muhajir soobha tehreek) this is what they go through.
Notice I do not use we Pashtuns despite the fact I identify as such after Pakistani because people just call me confused. @
Talon thinks I am chutia as well as others.
Also then I use we for ansaris too.
But then when you parents moved late, you lived with Indian relatives half your life in Dubai its amazing I even call myself Pakistan forget that I want to live under the shadow of the crescent and star for life and love my nation beyond anything else. We were bound to be confused and part of the confusion is due to the muhajirs failure to merge in the national fabric as Sindhis in Sindh.
@havisultan
i am a racist now? do i, the guys like you make me sick, who feel embarrassed about their own background and all that self pity, but its not my problem because guys like you are in every nation, anyway i will like to respond your post in parts
Darkinsky is a major part of the problem and his blithe attitude towards the sacrifices and suffering of others is testimony of the fact that racism pervades urdu speakers like a black plague. Its in all of us, all our relatives particularly but not limited to those who support the MQM.
right, i have no belithe attitude but the matter of fact is you are trying to make heroes out of bengalis who called india to tackle pakistan rather then negotiations, and yourself pity attitude goes even here
i dont hate bengladeshis because i dont love them either, they killed a lot of urdu speakers out there, the reality which they are not brave enough to accept, i mean what did urdu speakers did to be massacred? urdu speakers were not armed, why did they kill unarmed people? muktis were atleast armed and were even trained by KGB, but whats the sense of killing innocent people when pak army was responsible for all the blood bath and not urdu speakers
1) Victim syndrome: Ie we are the victims no matter what-we had no role in any injustice meeted out to anyone else.
2) Self-gratification: We had a disproportionate role in the formation of Pakistan. We did everything for Pakistan
Source: http://www.defence.pk/forums/social...nguage-sikandar-sherpao-10.html#ixzz2LiNbPWks
lol the victim mentality is present because of some injustice try to negate what you just said that urdu speakers are not looked down upon as indians and still they arnt being accepted into the country for whom they gave too much sacrifices, and then the quota system was also imposed on us where the people of perticular backgrounds were prefered then on merit where urdu speakers were ahead
second comes the self gratification? why dont we, as chak guy said most of the beaurocrats during that time were urdu speakers, if it wast for urdu speakers who werethe most qualified people who supported pakistan when there were no professionals to support it, pakistan could have crumbled very soon, why do you reject that? urdu speakers are the most educated people even today just try to listen imran khan and what he says, and its because urdu speakers are more willing to get educated and become professionals then any other ethnicity out there, our education ratio is very high as compared to others but still we are looked down
3) Deflection of responsibility/Shifting blame: The us vs them syndrome is fixed in the minds of the racist. No matter how hard a person tries it is hard to make a person stop thinking along such lines. Therefore for every issue there has to be a scapegoat which is depending on the stage.
Source: http://www.defence.pk/forums/social...nguage-sikandar-sherpao-10.html#ixzz2LiPUIZCq
ohh im the racist now, who started all this racist stuff in this thread by looking down on urdu speakers and that they were responsible for all the bengal mess, you are the one who started all this racism, urdu speakers laid down many lives just because of the foolishness of punjabis and pathans who raped and killed many bengalis but yeah right, we are the one who is responsible , we need to take the blame for something which we didnt do and had to pay the dear price for it because we were beurocrats and bhutto and ayub khan tried to side line the bengalis, nd while we were rotting in east pakistan in the mess, our dear countrymen didnt even came to rescue us and innocent bengalis tried to kill us,
but yeah who remembers that lets remember the brave pashtuns and punjabis who died killing bengalis, who remembers urdu speakers who died for standing for their country but still they are the indians and RAW agents and traitors
It is very hard to pull @darkinsky away from racism and hatred. Most of all its harder to make him look with and take part in some serious self-criticism. I (we nationalists too) are beyond the race issue. No matter how much I tell him urdu speakers have a higher gdp per capita than anyone else in the country (13,000 ruppees more than Punjabis who are second according to H&H), that he should go to interior sindh and see the crippling penury of the people... he will not believe me. Its because the identity is firmly entrenched in his head like the entangled roots of an aging tree (as is the concept itself) and he cannot question it.
Source: http://www.defence.pk/forums/social...nguage-sikandar-sherpao-10.html#ixzz2LiQiwgU4
aray mere bhai then why doesnt PPP develop interior sindh, when it had the chance for five years? do urdu speakers need to take the blame for the poor condition of sindhis today? try to go to interior sindh and then punjab and feel the difference, why dont sindhi dakkos lay down their weapons and bring peace and develop their region? what makes them stop when they already had a government for five years? you know this self pity stuff really annoys me, if PPP doesnt represent sindhis why do sindhis keeping voting them again and again? if they vote for MQM or other party and if still sindh remains backward then next time blame MQM or PMLN, but the thing is none other than sindhis are to be blamed for their conditions and no one else
mustafa kamal and not some sindhi developed karachi so we are living in a city which was developed by our efforts so why we dont share the part of the pie? karachi was a fishing town when we came and its not like we immigrated to new york city and reaping the fruits of the hard working white americans, or is it?
Ethnic identity has to be broken down and we can play a role in it if we try, first step is being nonchalant about it and criticizing the role of our people in issues. I apologize to the Bengalis for what urdu speakers did and consider Bengalis a part of Pakistan.
Source: http://www.defence.pk/forums/social...nguage-sikandar-sherpao-10.html#ixzz2LiSYYFNW
now how do you explain these words now? you blame me for being racist and then you again try to hit my nerve by speaking like this, first you are being apologetic for bengalis who killed thousands of urdu speakers which you dont mention and then you put blame on urdu speakers where as it was west pakistan who discriminated them, it was ayub khan and bhutto who broke our country and you continue to insult my ethnicity
and then you say that we should give up our ethnicity? why should we give up our culture, do pashtun do? do punjabis do? do balochs do? if they give up we will too, but why should we give up our identity, is it shameful to be related to whats india today? what about those british or american pakistanis who totally fail to asimilate to their culture and try to be distinguished as canadian or british or american pakistanis today? why dont the british punjabis give up their culture?
you see you are proving again and again, why im being so defensive here, you attitude and not my attitude is the definition of this course of action, you force me to be defensice where as i love my country very my and still try to hit my nerve, im always trying to portray pak as a beutiful country diverse, and post pictures from all four corners of pakistan, im the one who has kept balochistan pictures thread active where nobody even bothers because you know nobody cares for balochs but we urdu speakers love our country more than we love our ethnicity
But I will not let the same happen to anyone else. Also @darkinsky I can say Pashtuns were responsible too (Niazi, Tikka Khan)... but then will it stop you from shifting the blame and deflecting everything against muhajirs and their attrocities to the poorer folk? For example the proverty prevalence in rural Pakistan is 36% for Pakistan. 8000 schools in (mostly rural) Sindh are ghost schools. While muhajirs sit in shiny cities and have nara's like gaon tumhara, sheher hamara for them (for muhajir soobha tehreek) this is what they go through.
Source: http://www.defence.pk/forums/social...nguage-sikandar-sherpao-10.html#ixzz2LiU0G3G3
you need to explain how are we responsible for this poverty this mess? did urdu speakers raped this pakistan for five years? you as other know very well how sindhis were sold positions in important posts why didnt PPP the so called sindhi representative tryied to solve the interior sindh problems, why didnt they make hospitals and brought development to sindh? why is a common sindhi so upset with bhuttos today? are bhuttos ursu speakers?
Notice I do not use we Pashtuns despite the fact I identify as such after Pakistani because people just call me confused. @Talon thinks I am chutia as well as others. Also then I use we for ansaris too.
Source: http://www.defence.pk/forums/social...nguage-sikandar-sherpao-10.html#ixzz2LiV9gaVu
you are a racist, a pathetic being, thats why i say you are so pathetic that i curse the day the guys like you were born, you make us urdu speakers feeling pathetic, very low you know, if i define you the scum of pakistan it wont be wrong because in your confused path you are trying to turn us patriotic pakistanis into some racist guys, guys like you make chaos in the world rather then making peace its all happening because you are unable to satifsy your ego, you are one pathetic excuse for a human being, and im really glad you have realised this, have you seen the movie 'buttefly effect'? the guy doesnt realise in his efforts to do all the right he is infact creating chaos in the world, you are just like that guy
But then when you parents moved late, you lived with Indian relatives half your life in Dubai its amazing I even call myself Pakistan forget that I want to live under the shadow of the crescent and star for life and love my nation beyond anything else. We were bound to be confused and part of the confusion is due to the muhajirs failure to merge in the national fabric as Sindhis in Sindh.
Source: http://www.defence.pk/forums/social...nguage-sikandar-sherpao-10.html#ixzz2LiWQD2YF
muhajirs didnt call themselves one till they were realised they were muhajirs and their ancestors were indians, we were forced to call ourselves mohajirs, we were forced to take that identity