yea...but from a guy to marry me...I feel old
Nope sis, I am alsmot your age, and not married and do not feel old.PS. to be honest, I feel a little bit old, not much though
you almost have half of a central bank gold reserves as your jewelry Çay Bahçesi
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Nope sis, I am alsmot your age, and not married and do not feel old.PS. to be honest, I feel a little bit old, not much though
you almost have half of a central bank gold reserves as your jewelry 
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Well its kinda common in our culture....Women are decorated with gold...for my mom well she was scared by some aunty that if you have gold and dont use it it is haram so she started putting it on us
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Are you allowed to marry outside of Pakistan?Thats like 2-3 yrs more
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We women expire faster
PS. to be honest, I feel a little bit old, not much though
For unknown reasons guys only want teenagers coz they are hotter or so I heard
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As long as the person is Muslim...
Coz I doubt I would get along much with a desi much
Well its kinda common in our culture....Women are decorated with gold...for my mom well she was scared by some aunty that if you have gold and dont use it it is haram so she started putting it on us
that makes sense expire?We women expire faster
For unknown reasons guys only want teenagers coz they are hotter or so I heard
No, don't look at it in this way. some guys may want teenagers, just to have more fun, but they are not good marriage materials themselves
what is a "desi"?As long as the person is Muslim...
Coz I doubt I would get along much with a desi much
google says, it means poor ...
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True but my real reason is child bearing ageexpire?
No, don't look at it in this way. some guys may want teenagers, just to have more fun, but they are not good marriage materials themselves
and also mothering age...
I think a young mother can chase her hyper active child (damn I was and still am active) and also prob patient enough to keep changing pampers and clothes and teach slowly I am more impatient now than I was before...not sure what happened
Another thing is age gap...My parents were 30 (mom) and 35 or more (dad) when I was born...they have either never thought of me old enough to treat me as a friend or thought of me as too old for toys ...It was messed up...I was a serious kid and now I am a wild teenager trapped in an adult's body
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Desi is South Asian (Indian/ Pakistani/ Bengoli/ Sri Lankan/ Nepalese ) well not really Sri Lankan nor Nepalese mostly used for Pakistani, Bangladeshi and Indian...Desi - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Thanks! actually it was "pure", but I misread it as poor
Desi - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
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Thanks! actually it was "pure", but I misread it as poor
sleep catching up?
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@Akheilos
I thought parents were always ready to find husbands/brides ? why don't you ask them ?
but it would be hard to find someone in your level, may be you overstudied don't worry about age, We are seeing 50-60 years old new mothers its better to find a proper adult then a whiny teenage girl, there is a little something called milf as well
I thought parents were always ready to find husbands/brides ? why don't you ask them ?
but it would be hard to find someone in your level, may be you overstudied don't worry about age, We are seeing 50-60 years old new mothers its better to find a proper adult then a whiny teenage girl, there is a little something called milf as well True but my real reason is child bearing age
and also mothering age...
I think a young mother can chase her hyper active child (damn I was and still am active) and also prob patient enough to keep changing pampers and clothes and teach slowly I am more impatient now than I was before...not sure what happened
Another thing is age gap...My parents were 30 (mom) and 35 or more (dad) when I was born...they have either never thought of me old enough to treat me as a friend or thought of me as too old for toys ...It was messed up...I was a serious kid and now I am a wild teenager trapped in an adult's body
I fully understand your concerns. My thought is that, If you want to have 2 children, then you are fine until you become 30. then you can plan 1 year for meeting some guy, 1 year for preparing for marriage, 1 year rest after marriage, then having a child, rest another 1-2 years, and having another one. then you can have 2 children before becoming 35 years old. As far as the gap is concerned, we cannot do much about it. The world is changing even faster than before, and if there was a gap for 30 years old parents, now there would be gap for 20 years old parents as well
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what the heck is milf?@Akheilos
I thought parents were always ready to find husbands/brides ? why don't you ask them ?
well, my parents cant seem to find coz well they dont have many friends in Pakistan
plus my dad is too egoistic...he thinks girls side shouldnt ask for proposal only a guy's side should come and ask if they want his daughters...so with such attitude well....so far no one wants to ask
or maybe we dont know enough to have a better choice...plus my family is too family oriented and have been REAL BUSY fighting themselves to make proper friends outside the family circle! So we literally dont know many people....and I really have no interest in marrying someone who comes from my dad's town....
Then there is match at mental level..I am not like desi women who wont talk back or wont question a decision..that irks many men...they dont like a woman with a brain
And well after 25 people just dont look at you for marriage anymore
Every bastard at marrying age wants a tall, beautiful , FAIR, educated, MUTE bride ...yup....mute coz she should be yes boss type!
Oh did I forget if you are a doctor you have a higher chance of being proposed? Yea status and all that shit!
And yea I overstudied
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the world is changing fast hence why I wanted to be on friends level with my children...its easier to advice a friend- child than one distant from you and having a parent- respect relationship!I fully understand your concerns. My thought is that, If you want to have 2 children, then you are fine until you become 30. then you can plan 1 year for meeting some guy, 1 year for preparing for marriage, 1 year rest after marriage, then having a child, rest another 1-2 years, and having another one. then you can have 2 children before becoming 35 years old. As far as the gap is concerned, we cannot do much about it. The world is changing even faster than before, and if there was a gap for 30 years old parents, now there would be gap for 20 years old parents as well
The world is changing and hence the smaller the gap the better otherwise we would be lost with all the new gadgets! My mom still doesnt know how to fully operate a mobile fone
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