Depends on whose narrative you choose to lend credence to. There are plenty of moves that China terms as 'hostile' to their security. With regard to the inferiority complex, India is doing a fairly commendable job vis-a-vis China. We may not be directly confronting them but neither is China. We hold up our bit of the bargain by asserting free navigation of the SCS and the continued support for the exiled government of Tibet.
All this chutzpah dissolves into thin air when handling Pakistan comes into the picture. No nation, regardless of it's size or stature, allows insolence of this magnitude to go unquestioned;
Pak foreign minister starts India visit by meeting Kashmiri separatists - Times Of India
Yes, a Pakistani minister broke protocol and met with separatists right under India's watch. She should've been packed off on the very next flight but we chose to downplay the entire affair. Posturing of such kind is downright detrimental to India's interests as it concedes ground to Pakistan for no reciprocation of benefit to India.
Also, our level of seriousness in keeping the focus on the cross border "loving'' has a demonstrative effect on other nations to base their response. Why should the United States be motivated to go after Hafiz Saeed or the LET if India has scant interest in the same? What stops Russia from arming Islamabad if it's all smiles and hugs on the India-Pakistan front? Who's to say that smaller nations will not start leveraging it's relation with Pakistan in order to extract concessions from us? Nothing occurs in a state of geopolitical vacuum and sooner or later, their self interests will kick in before their camaraderie to India. This is the thin edge of the wedge we seem to be completely forgoing.