I can see where u are coming from and I wouldn't be surprised in the least that what u said is true. Its the same over here for many of us too. There has been way too much bad blood between us and alot of blood has been spilled. And lets not even get started on the trust issues. You guys give a dozen reasons why u shouldn't trust us and we do likewise pointing at Kargil. Where there is no trust, there can be no friendship either. Personally if its just up to me or some of those people I know, we'd rather normalization of relations NOT happen and we just stay out of each other's way.
But there are politicians at both ends (more from your end actually) who believe that the benefits of a normal relationship with India far outweigh the current hostility we still have between us. I'm not excited at all about this, but I'm curious to see what else u guys are going to bring to the table.
Anyways if Nawaz isn't really popular based on what u r saying (and what some other Pak posters are saying here), I guess there is not much cause for worry then. Any such initiative by him will probably not take off, so I guess u guys don't have much to worry about either.