Use of composites doesn't necessarily solve topweight issues, which deal with where the centre of gravity of the ship is and how high up there is significent weight. See Sa'ar 5: it never sailed with the 2x32 Barak AND 2x4 Harpoon AND 2x4 Gabriel for which it was designed (and with good reason).
I didn't know this thing about Sa'ar 5 but Kamorta is three times bigger than Sa'ar 5.
Shivalik class has a complement of 257 (including 35 officers). This will be reduced to about 150 total in P17A. If you project that reduction ration onto the p28 complement of 193, you get 113. I don't know what you mean by 'such ships': what ships are you comparing to?
Comparing Shivalik & P28
6200 vs 3400/3500 tonnes
Complement of 257 vs 193
So, complement of 257 can be justified for Shivalik but 193 for P28 is too high
Complement for Talwars(4050 tonnes) 220, for FREMM 145(France)(6000 tonnes) or 199(Italy)(6900 tonnes), for Global Combat Ship 118, for Horizon class(7050 tonnes) 180.
Comparing P28
For
Floréal-class(2,950 tonnes) 88, for Govind class(2500 tonnes) 65+15 Special Forces, for Khareef class 100, Also LCS.
Capability of P17A from P17 will increase significantly as displacement from 6200 to 6670, comparing P28/P28A with P17/P17A is not a good idea but for P28A if automation is done complement can be reduced to 100+10 crew for helicopter.
Magazine capacity varies, typically 72 or 96 rounds per RBU-6000 launcher. The launchers itself weighs 3.1 tons. The classic RGB-60 projectile weighs 110kg and the more modern homing 90R projectile weighs 112.5kg.
So, at set of two launchers, each with their own reloading mechanism and magazine weighs between 2x(3100+(72*110))=22040kg and 2x(3100+(96*112.5))=27800kg.
The 8-round UKSK-Kh launcher weighs 14 or 15 tons, depending on subtype. Each Brahmos missile weighs 3 tons. So, a set of 8 in a VLS would weigh 28-29 tons.
The arrangement of RBU and Brahmos systems on P17/Shivalik isn't all that different from that on project 1135.6/Talwar. With a beam of 16.9m and draught of 4.5m, P17 is about 1.7m wider and has 0.3m greater draught relative to 1135.6. For Delhi/P15 and Kolkata/P15A this is 17.4 m and 6.5 m. Kamorta/P28 has a beam of 13.7 m.
Is it possible to use inclined launchers on P28?
I too think that Barak 8 is a distant possibility but can be 16xBarak 1/Maitri.
About Barak 8, we may be wrong as there was some reports about Barak 8 on Kamorta class.
I think designers of Kamorta-class didn't think about export potentials otherwise they would have made provision for 8 SSMs too, as putting 8 more SSM on such a big ship may not be problem, it's current govt which is thinking about export potential as it has cancelled import of minesweepers & import of first two submarine for P75I also cancelled.
How much more could you raise the position forward of the bridge?
I think there is already height available for 8 BrahMos, may not need raise.
Drought of Kamorta & Talwar may not be much different as their weight is not much different.
Also, you mentioned BrahMos is ahead of RBUs on Talwar class so compare that space with P28, there is easily space available for BrahMos if RBU are removed.