An internet forum is not truly representative of the entire country of pakistan, but does offer a close insight into the educated pakistanis.
Few things about pakistani members I have learned here on the forum:
All pakistanis members here have the genuine wish for prosperity of their nation, their society and the region in general.
All pakistani members here love china and wish to see china succeed as a great power in world stage.
All pakistani member have a certain disdain for their political leaders and dictators (except Mohd Ali Jinnah) but are strict devout followers of the army and it's intentions for the country.
Pakistan is not a failed country, was never one, will never be.
Pakistani members here have a very upbeat fighting spirit.
Pakistanis members are very proud of muslim history of the subcontinent, they have no disdain for the hindu history but are indifferent towards it.
There are a few minds here on the forum, which have the capacity to run pakistan's policy matters much better than the current crop of politicians. (Oscar/IB/Xeric/ listening?)
Few negatives I found that lived up to my envisioned stereotype associated with pakistans view towards India and US;
Most members here believe India has evil Hegemonic designs aimed to undermine Pak, India is now US's crony, Hindus hate muslims and want to invade pakistan for the same reason, etc.
Another interesting observation is rampant infatuation with conspiracy theories.
This has been my observation about pakistani members in general,
On defense matters most of the relevant members, think tanks and mods are extremely well informed, and possess enough foresight to put professional analysts to shame. In all this has been a very educative and enjoyable experience