Then your mind could never have climbed out of the gutter from that early age....when full of such dirty thoughts..
Those thoughts are not dirty. They are natural.
I have seen in Pakistan...class 5 students checking out girls three times their age and then like you say...talking about their bust n bum.
Every kid, everywhere in the world does this. Boys will be boys. Wherever they are from. And it isnt wrong to feel attracted to the opposite sex. There was even a study which said, that Babies have sexual feelings!! Even before birth!!
Ultrasound pictures have revealed erections in male fetuses as early as the seventeenth week after conception! So your idea of sexuality is too conservative.
Infant Sexuality: Sexual feelings and sexual development in babies
I rather let my children enjoy their childhoowd with a child's mind and thoughts....not having wet dreams at age 8 or even 11.
Whether you let them have wet dreams or not, they WILL have those dreams. Every child goes through this phase.Sexual ignorance is not the solution to prevent teenage pregnancies and STDs. Ridiculous.
I will be livid if my 10 year old goes to school and comes back asking me about female genetalia.
Sheesh. So you wont be proud of the fact that your kid trusts you enough to ask you about something that is traditionally considered taboo??!! Or is it YOU that is embarrassed about such questions? If your kid asks questions you should be able to answer those questions instead of shutting him up by getting angry. You should also in that case be proud that your kid is mature enough to know all those things. Good god man, you need some serious liberalism, or your kids are gonna grow up totally frustrated, with no girlfriends or whatever. Such opinionated systems are what pulls a lot of the sub continental youth down, and frankly speaking am damn happy that didnt affect me too much! Atleast my parents were liberal enough to answer such questions at a very early age. AND you need some sex education too.
There is another angle to it, about homosexuality. What if the kid was homosexual and was struggling with identity? How will you as a parent be able to deal with that? Would you support that kid or would you torture him/her more by giving him a BS lecture about culture? Are you even educated about homosexuality etc? If not that is exactly why we need sex education. There is lots of ignorance in this world about sexuality and people lose their freakin minds over an act that is very natural.
