You know that you and I are in the same boat: Pakistanis married to Southern women!
One more Reason i can give you, we both are from Karachi
You could probably see your younger self in me ( take it lightly as a joke ) .
So my wife was talking to me worried about 'another Middle Eastern War' some hours ago; I didn't pay much attention to that, thinking the drama at the US Embassy in Baghdad wasn't going to lead to a war: I thought it was between some Iraqi militia $issed off about US strikes in Iraq and it didnt' seem unusual in Iraq. So I calmed her down: Nah, nothing of another ME war is going to happen.
But once I saw the news of General Soleimani's assassination, I realized the significance of the brewing crises and for her angst.
She didn't know if the killed guy was from Iran! Just that she knew that something major was happening there. Her complaint was: Why are they attacking us in Iraq? I asked: What are WE doing there in the first place? It's their country, their region, and we are bombing them for a long time. She agreed: We need to get the hell out of the Middle East affairs.
Your wife seems to take interest in region and world Politics, my wife is young her most of interests are you can imagine where , Lists of stuff she wants for our home , kids , herself and me .. hahaha
but one thing she is know that we are Pakistani's , and our enemy is India .. I can safely say she doesn't like India and never show a tiny bit of Interest in going there even for famous tourist destination . Thing is I often tell her about the issues and wrongs Pakistan did, and yet she feel so happy and Proud calling herself Half Pakistani , and very excited about getting a Pakistani Passport .
When i told her , she thought America killed some Pakistani General, and she immediately start blaming India for it, she was like Damn these must be Indians who paid American forces to do so etc etc, I was like No no wait, we can fight India another day, this has nothing to do with us , its America killed some Iranian General in Iraq, and she was like Ahhhh well , than Whatever .. hahaha
But I agree that me and my wife often talk about such things, and she is also convinced that America should not interfere in other countries definitely not bombing them .
My wife has this fear that, As American Army goes in other countries to fight, she believe that one day our kids might be enrolled in Army to go fight, and she thinks that at some point America will bring Conscription as Army is not getting new recruits ( her words , can't confirm her claim ) . I don't even know if Kids of a Immigrant from Pakistan with a American wife can even Join Army ?
Trump's Southern and Evangelical Christian base are so blinded by patriotism and love for Israel that it's the biggest threat to the global (or at least the Middle Eastern) peace IMO!
No Offense to anyone but she loath's the Evangelical Christians and the Churches near by, she said they are fraud and child molesters , No offense to anyone .. As per her words they blackmail and use various tactics to extract money as donations from people , while some of the priest molested Children and worse part is that no one even file report for them . I gave her permission to keep her religion and in fact i offer her to be in Church with her if she wants to , I said I could just sit there quietly while she can pray and than we leave , but as we used to talk and discuss things she decided to accept Islam on her own . Her Opinion over Israel is very simple , its one country America will destroy everyone other country to protect this one , she doesn't know history but she understand that much, and honestly speaking I can't argue with her on that .
A good deal of American policies are irrational!! Don't put too much faith into US foreign affairs' logic. POTUS has a lot of power, despite the supposed checks and balances in the system, and despite requiring Congressional approvals for war, and despite some mythical cold-calculated way Americans work. Had they not been irrational, being driven by a cornered maniac in charge President, then we wouldn't have large segments of Americans writing against the assassination of Mr. Suleimani and we wouldn't have the leading Democratic candidates--mind you, one of them may well become the next POTUS-- berating Trump over the Suleimani assassination!
You know since I wrote about my Marriage here with a America, and every time I criticize White supremacists or American Policy people will call me Anti American, some goes like if you hate America so much why begging to go there ? I was like I don't hate America or Americans I just disagree or Dislike American Policies towards other countries, how does that makes me Anti American ? I wish these people can read your posts, And i assume you are now American Citizen, so no one can tell you what they tell me .. Only person from US who understands, is
@KAL-EL I respect him to understand my point .
We have a mad-man in the White House! A fratboy who has nothing to lose. Even if he's impeached, he has a skin thicker than an alligator and will go on living a comfortable life. A place in history? A disgrace in history? Nah, you need a sense of history, of destiny to be bothered with such niceties. He has none!
Donald Trump to my knowledge is sick and Mentally unstable, weather its his comments on Women , or making fun of a Journalist with Disability , or saying Islam Hates us , or asking for Violence against protesters , saying White Supremacists has fine people , lying without any repercussion , Changing his statements , calling African countries Shit hole , Treating Mexicans and other RACES , this man is not mentally stable to me .. But he is POTUS and we have to deal with it just like the world, the thing I like about him is that he is unpredictable , he is not a Liar or polished Politicians like Democrats who sold off their souls to Powerful lobbies, Yes trump is also under Lobbies but we do know that he may turned around at them at any given time . I think he will surely be the most weirdest President in History of USA .