Firstly, fair play- you've given a good, well written and reasonable reply. And I concede some of the points you have raised.
However saying the IAF has NOTHING over the PAF? This clearly isn't true, apart from out and out numbers it has larger quantities of 4th gen fighters as well as more AWACS, more AARs, more transports etc. And in many cases the quantity is backed by superior quality on example can be the AWACS of both nations, whilst it may seem the PAF about matched the IAF's AWACS on paper wrt numbers any person who knows anything about defence will tell you the IAF's PHALCON AWACS easily outclasses the ERIEYE or ZDK. Paksitan's own media has said in the past there is strong fear among the PAF brass that the PHALCON could simply jam all PAF AWACS.
To be fair this is because of a number of reasons. In Pakistan the military wields ridiculous power of the civil government and nance makes sure its needs are met and so procurements happen quickly. In India where the military is competly apolitical and ruled over by civil government 100% it is clear it is not as easy to push through defence deals. Also much of Pakistan's military purchases, especially the larger scale purchases, are done through government-government deals namely from China or US and for the big deals there is rarely ever an open competitive tender process like India has for almost every single defence purchase.Again it is clear Pakistan's method will be quicker but it hardly makes it better, in fact it leaves the door open to all sorts of corruption and Mal practice and doesn't ensure Pakistan gets the best for its money.