You're right. I do use the P word liberally, probably because until I few years ago, I didn't see myself as anything other than British because of how mix I am. But I took time and went through all my heritages and connect with them. But because growing up in a house where slurs were common, such as p@kis which my dad used against fresh of the boat Pakistanis who refused to integrate, or Chinamen for Asians who came after the handover when tens of thousands of Hong Kong Chinese came to UK, it became normal to say those terms. And you have to know, my dad didn't grow up in a Pakistani community, he grew up in a small village outside of Glasgow where even till this day, there are only 3 non white non Christian families, one of them being ours. He didn't see himself as Pakistani or Afghan, he saw himself as British. And the same goes for me.
Let's not pretend that punjabis don't have ethnic slur names for sindhis or pakhtuns, or that pakhtuns do t have ethnic slurs for punjabis or balochis. You all do it aswell. I've heard it here within the Pakistani community.
I apologise if I came off as aggressive, but when elders on this forum forget where there place is, it's becomes my responsibility to put them back where they belong. Age doesn't give you respect, your character gives you respect.
But thanks for the honest and respectful comment.
Mate...Your points may have been valid...But being an outside i know that my Pakistani friend will not like me if i say **** to him...So stop using the word and continue to post about the real topic for which post was created