Haha ! that's what most vietnamese see Indonesia. Let me clear this one (again) to you. Chinese people in Indonesia are pretty nationalist, even after what we did to them in 1998, and don't blind yourself to the fact that nowadays Chinese people in Indonesia are just the same with another Indonesians, they are part of Indonesia and no one can segregate them, if you look closely, you can find Chinese-blood people also working in factories and many of them are as poor as another poor people in Indonesia. Just because they are Chinese-blood doesn't mean they aren't Indonesian, and above another people in Indonesia, heck even the vice governor of Jakarta is a Chinese-blood. As an Indonesian, I don't see Chinese people are different from us, they are just another Indonesian, and please understand that, in my country, being a "second class citizens" is all about how you bring yourself in career and job opportunity, one of the biggest private company in Indonesia, Bakrie group, isn't owned by Chinese blood people, and yes, that company also employ chinese-blood people as well as locals. Well maybe in your country there is classification among citizens but let's not bringing things that happen in your country to mine.
And please, learn the difference between China and Chinese.
So, instead of growing their economy and prosperity, they should side with countries who can't even help themselves? Wow, that's smart. If you want a neutral acts, give them something that worth neutral acts. Do you think Indonesia act neutral to China and U.S of A because she wants to act neutral? Everything is about balancing game, if you want a country act neutral for you, or even better, side with you, give them what they want. Cambodia want economy, give them investment, loan, and aid. Cambodia want military toys, give them weapons. Cambodia want education, give them schools. Or else? you can't make Cambodia turn side with you.