13 Reasons Why You Won’t Be Able To Resist Dating A Pakhtun

[Shamain]

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[cleverrider]

Dating and Pashtuns?......just recently in my area, a guy tried to elope with a waziristani IDP girl.....her father killed both his daughter and the boy

I got similar stories, however mostly belong to so called “uneducated families”. Educated Pashtun families living in cities such as Peshawar and Islamabad things are a little different, Not sure about Karachi though. In the UK afghan pashtun girls are a little easy however Pakistani pashtun girls are hard to find and harder to make friends with.

 

[Raja.Pakistani]

In the UK afghan pashtun girls are a little easy however Pakistani pashtun girls are hard to find and harder to make friends with.

Yea because a pashtun guy no matter how modern or no matter how many polish, European girl friends he slept with but when he go for marrying a virgin girl from his own city swat or mardan and next you will see the same guy with his wife in burqa from head to toe walking behind him`so you are right as far as you are talking about pahstuns girls who came to uk from Pakistan..things are littel different for those who did schooling in here or brought up in here

 

[Thorough Pro]

WTF with pics and clips of hindu bitches

 

[Shamain]

Dont hate the playa hate the game *that swag face

(To all pushtoon haters)

 

[cleverrider]

Yea because a pashtun guy no matter how modern or no matter how many polish, European girl friends he slept with but when he go for marrying a virgin girl from his own city swat or mardan and next you will see the same guy with his wife in burqa from head to toe walking behind him`so you are right as far as you are talking about pahstuns girls who came to uk from Pakistan..things are littel different for those who did schooling in here or brought up in here

Well you just changed the topic, regarding wearing burqa. It depends from individual to individual. South Asians and other muslims are more into the type of clothing you are referring too (e.g, hardly you will see a somali girl without a head scarf or Burqa). At least that’s what I have come across and trust me I know.

You took that little dig at pashtuns, especially our male population but you failed, maybe it was your naivety or you done it on purpose. Like I have said before Non-pashtuns muslims are more into that vibe even in this case (for marrying a virgin girl from his own city and same guy with his wife in burqa from head to toe walking).e.g mirpuris. Comparatively Yes I know their number is high but still.

If that was targeted at me, no I will not make my wife wear burqa (I will advise against it) Yes I went to school here and was brought up here.

 

[Raja.Pakistani]

Well you just changed the topic, regarding wearing burqa. It depends from individual to individual. South Asians and other muslims are more into the type of clothing you are referring too. At least that’s what I have come across and trust me I know.

You took that little dig at pashtuns, especially our male population but you failed, maybe it was your naivety or you done it on purpose. Like I have said before Non-pashtuns muslims are more into that vibe even in this case (for marrying a virgin girl from his own city and same guy with his wife in burqa from head to toe walking).e.g mirpuris.

If that was targeted at me, no I will not make my wife wear burqa (I will advise against it) Yes I went to school here and was brought up here.

Dont take it personal. I have nothing against hijaab or burqa as long as those Muslim men who impose it on their women protect their eyes and practice modesty themselves as well. I was actually speaking about double standards and this possessive nature of some pashtuns guys i met. They have one morals for themselves and others for their girls. This is mostly true for majority Pakistani men as well but is more common among pashtuns. They were extreme liberal themselves when it come to having pre-martial affairs with white or others women and were extreme conservative/possessive for their girls i.e daughters, sisters and wives. Dont take me wrong. I have nothing against my pastuns brother as some of my close friends and house mates are pashtusn but where they have some good qualities in them there were certain double standards and hypocisy which id not like and even i said this to their face as well

 

[cleverrider]

Dont take it personal. I have nothing against hijaab or burqa as long as those Muslim men who impose it on their women protect their eyes and practice modesty themselves as well. I was actually speaking about double standards and this possessive nature of some pashtuns guys i met. They have one morals for themselves and others for their girls. This is mostly true for majority Pakistani men as well but is more common among pashtuns. They were extreme liberal themselves when it come to having pre-martial affairs with white or others women and were extreme conservative/possessive for their girls i.e daughters, sisters and wives. Dont take me wrong. I have nothing against my pastuns brother as some of my close friends and house mates are pashtusn but where they have some good qualities in them there were certain double standards and hypocisy which id not like and even i said this to their face as well

Wherever you go, you will certainly come across double standards it’s in human nature. Sisters/Wives/daughters are a completely different thing compare to having girlfriends.

Look it depends and a lot of factors come into play. Let me give you an example, my white girlfriend spotted in a club by my mates, its normal or wearing a bikini on the beach. My Pakistani/pashtun GF spotted in a club dancing away there is a problem they will come and tell me or wearing a bikini. Society/background, see what I mean by saying different factors coming into play. Now your pashtun mate gets married to a girl from backhome, if he tells her to wear a burqa mostly likely she will. However if he gets married to a white girl and he does the same he probably get a kick in his backside and mostly likely he won’t ask her. You react differently depending on a situation, its human nature again. Take example of a bully, if he knows he will get away with it he will repeat it if he knows there is consequences he will act or react to a situation in a different manner.

Coming again to your point even if he gets married back home and she is educated/earning her own money/strong family (factors coming into play) and she doesn’t want to wear a burqa. I think he will think twice before making a move or saying anything.

 

[Raja.Pakistani]

Wherever you go, you will certainly come across double standards it’s in human nature. Sisters/Wives/daughters are a completely different thing compare to having girlfriends.

Look it depends and a lot of factors come into play. Let me give you an example, my white girlfriend spotted in a club by my mates, its normal or wearing a bikini on the beach. My Pakistani/pashtun GF spotted in a club dancing away there is a problem they will come and tell me or wearing a bikini. Society/background, see what I mean by saying different factors coming into play. Now your pashtun mate gets married to a girl from backhome, if he tells her to wear a burqa mostly likely she will. However if he gets married to a white girl and he does the same he probably get a kick in his backside and mostly likely he won’t ask her. You react differently depending on a situation, its human nature again. Take example of a bully, if he knows he will get away with it he will repeat it if he knows there is consequences he will act or react to a situation in a different manner.

Coming again to your point even if he gets married back home and she is educated/earning her own money/strong family (factors coming into play) and she doesn’t want to wear a burqa. I think he will think twice before making a move or saying anything.

I know what you are talking about dear but i guess you still not got my points. I personally dont like hypocrisy and double standards no matter who does it. I will not impose something on someone when i don't apply it on myself. I have some pashtuns friends whom i know from last 7/8 years. I know some of them were very liberal i.e they have been sleeping with many white girls and were walking with them on street having their hands on her shoulder without having any sense of shame or Islamic morals in their minds . These same guys went Pakistan and found a very conservative girls and next time you saw them on street with full veil woman walking behind them. Islamic or cultural values are not just for women but for men as well. Why all honour and izzat just revolve around women and men can do whatever he want but it will become matter of shame if women does same things. I am talking in context of dating or pre-martial affairs as they are not forbidden just for women. I was not talking about white women here but desi Muslim men who are liberal/western for themselves and become extreme conservative for their women

 

[cleverrider]

I know what you are talking about dear but i guess you still not got my points. I personally dont like hypocrisy and double standards no matter who does it. I will not impose something on someone when i don't apply it on myself. I have some pashtuns friends whom i know from last 7/8 years. I know some of them were very liberal i.e they have been sleeping with many white girls and were walking with them on street having their hands on her shoulder without having any sense of shame or Islamic morals in their minds . These same guys went Pakistan and found a very conservative girls and next time you saw them on street with full veil woman walking behind them. Islamic or cultural values are not just for women but for men as well. Why all honour and izzat just revolve around women and men can do whatever he want but it will become matter of shame if women does same things. I am talking in context of dating or pre-martial affairs as they are not forbidden just for women. I was not talking about white women here but desi Muslim men who are liberal/western for themselves and become extreme conservative for their women

Like I said wherever you go you will find double standards and hypocrites, So I Agreed (I will not impose something on someone when i don't apply it on myself) Yes I Agree. I was talking in human behaviour and pashtun context.

Well you just answered yourself (same guys went Pakistan and found a very conservative girls) before you mentioned and I quote “were extreme conservative/possessive for their girls” if the girl is already conservative and wearing a burqa or whatever then it’s a done deal before its sounded like they force them. Basically he is making choices for example, like white people say that’s the type of girl you want to bring home to your parents, what about other girls they shagged? Same goes for your mates they want to shag these girls but want to marry a specific type of girl. So its not muslims or pashtuns or Pakistanis. Its a mentality and making choices everyone is allowed to make their choices. Yes its double standards/hypocrisy/Not fair/not logical. But what is fair in this world? Nothing!

(men can do whatever he want but it will become matter of shame if women does same things) Women and men will never be equal because nature does not allow it, the WEST is “trying”.

(I am talking in context of dating or pre-martial affairs as they are not forbidden just for women) let’s leave out Islam for a bit. Is burqa bothering you as well? I don’t like these Ningas as well, scarf is okay, but if it was upto me first I would say allow it and if they really wanted to cover their hair. I would suggest a dupita, looks a bit classy.

 

[Zibago]

Like I said wherever you go you will find double standards and hypocrites, So I Agreed (I will not impose something on someone when i don't apply it on myself) Yes I Agree. I was talking in human behaviour and pashtun context.

Well you just answered yourself (same guys went Pakistan and found a very conservative girls) before you mentioned and I quote “were extreme conservative/possessive for their girls” if the girl is already conservative and wearing a burqa or whatever then it’s a done deal before its sounded like they force them. Basically he is making choices for example, like white people say that’s the type of girl you want to bring home to your parents, what about other girls they shagged? Same goes for your mates they want to shag these girls but want to marry a specific type of girl. So its not muslims or pashtuns or Pakistanis. Its a mentality and making choices everyone is allowed to make their choices. Yes its double standards/hypocrisy/Not fair/not logical. But what is fair in this world? Nothing!

(men can do whatever he want but it will become matter of shame if women does same things) Women and men will never be equal because nature does not allow it, the WEST is “trying”.

(I am talking in context of dating or pre-martial affairs as they are not forbidden just for women) let’s leave out Islam for a bit. Is burqa bothering you as well? I don’t like these Ningas as well, scarf is okay, but if it was upto me first I would say allow it and if they really wanted to cover their hair. I would suggest a dupita, looks a bit classy.

This is standard braki behaviour
British Pakistani men dont want to marry British Pakistani women they want a suljhy hui larki from back home
Why British Muslim women struggle to find a marriage partner | Syma Mohammed | Comment is free | The Guardian

 

[Raja.Pakistani]

This is standard braki behaviour
British Pakistani men dont want to marry British Pakistani women they want a suljhy hui larki from back home
Why British Muslim women struggle to find a marriage partner | Syma Mohammed | Comment is free | The Guardian

Sulji howe mean submissive type jiss ko jis tra dil karey daba loo chahey khud jo marzi karoo

Is burqa bothering you as well? I don’t like these Ningas as well, scarf is okay, but if it was upto me first I would say allow it and if they really wanted to cover their hair. I would suggest a dupita, looks a bit classy.

Burqa is not bothering me ..what actually bother me is the hypocrisy when Muslim men is too liberal western themselves but expect her woman to cover from head to toe..for me its insecurity within men that let him force women to wear burqa..if she wear it by her own will then thats different matter..but yea i agree with you burqa is bit extreme for some if you live in western countries and simple chadar or scarf is more than enough because burqa will gather more attention in crowds..i know some guys whose women wear burqa and they were often teased by white teens in public places while women with scarf or hijab never faced any such issues

 

[Zibago]

Sulji howe mean submissive type jiss ko jis tra dil karey daba loo chahey khud jo marzi karoo

Jo ap samajh jao mein nay to khud aik british larki ka rishta reject kia tha
Its a really big issue apparently

My reason was different but she got rejected 14 times by british pakistani men

 

[Raja.Pakistani]

Jo ap samajh jao mein nay to khud aik british larki ka rishta reject kia tha
Its a really big issue apparently

My reason was different but she got rejected 14 times by british pakistani men

I tell you the reason for most men preferring sulji type girl backhome. British pakistani women who born or rais ein here are independent women who dont depend on man for finacial reasons so they demand fairness and equality as they know their rights well and cannot be dictate ..while desi man even if born in UK prefer some submissive type women back home who depend on him for everything nd dont have this ability to make her own choices and always be loyal to him chhaey husband jidar be moun marta rhey bahir

 

[Zibago]

I tell you the reason for most men preferring sulji type girl backhome. British pakistani women who born or rais ein here are independent women who dont depend on man for finacial reasons so they demand fairness and equality as they know their rights well and cannot be dictate ..while desi man even if born in UK prefer some submissive type women back home who depend on him for everything nd dont have this ability to make her own choices and always be loyal to him chhaey husband jidar be moun marta rhey bahir

True 4 of my braki cousins have married girls from Pakistan only two have married bron and bred British girls both non Pakistanis