Whatever

[Dillinger]

We are blessed with assholes in power, with all gas and no real intent.

WAIT till I become the PM.
@sms will you vote for me?

 

[jaibi]

National Command Authority.

Can you analyse something for me?

The thought of authorizing a nuclear counter force and counter value strike with an imperious command and with all its consequences having been taken cognizance of gives me goosebumps- excited goosebumps.

In any movie when something BIG's going to happen- mass scale casualties, asteroid strike (nuke explosion from Sum of All Fears) I get excited and positively giddy. So ummm...what sort of things do I have going in my head.

To be serious, I would analyse this your excitment in terms of Psychoanalysis (basically stressing upon the innate and hidden process in the deepest recesses of your mind) is of massive change. The people who would die in the massive strike represent your desire for the direction or environment of your life to change and that too drastically. You in your unconscious mind (unaware part which is also the strongest) are sick of monotony and want it to change. So the people represent the hooks the things that bind your life the way it is and their destruction in the most violent of ways is your desire to change your life completely and seeing this is actually called wish fulfillment and whence you see that in movies you feel gratification thus excitment.

You should allow yourself some time to explore what you truly want from life a thing that has worked for a lot of clients I have helped is going on a trip (preferably one which will bring you close to nature) depending on your wish it can be taken alone or with friends but bear in mind that it is not a vacation but a trip you're not suppose to be confined to a hotel room and watch t.v. you're suppose to go outside, hike all day, perhaps fish your food with a local hunter, sit all night by the fire with your friends and so on.

 

[sms]

WAIT till I become the PM.
@sms will you vote for me?

No .....One more RAHUL BABA ........

Yeh I can vote for you if you can kick out bunch of monkeys in Congress!!

 

[jaibi]

We are blessed with assholes in power, with all gas and no real intent.

I think it is because we have not been able to come out of our colonial mind like the Black slaves in the US. We are still imprisioned by the 'house-nigger' mentality. Thus, even now we are happy to submit to foreign hegemony if we could get to show our 'enemy' what's what forgetting we are strengthening the chains that were put on us.

 

[Dillinger]

To be serious, I would analyse this your excitment in terms of Psychoanalysis (basically stressing upon the innate and hidden process in the deepest recesses of your mind) is of massive change. The people who would die in the massive strike represent your desire for the direction or environment of your life to change and that too drastically. You in your unconscious mind (unaware part which is also the strongest) are sick of monotony and want it to change. So the people represent the hooks the things that bind your life the way it is and their destruction in the most violent of ways is your desire to change your life completely and seeing this is actually called wish fulfillment and whence you see that in movies you feel gratification thus excitment.

You should allow yourself some time to explore what you truly want from life a thing that has worked for a lot of clients I have helped is going on a trip (preferably one which will bring you close to nature) depending on your wish it can be taken alone or with friends but bear in mind that it is not a vacation but a trip you're not suppose to be confined to a hotel room and watch t.v. you're suppose to go outside, hike all day, perhaps fish your food with a local hunter, sit all night by the fire with your friends and so on.

I have never been able to stay put, nor can I bare monotony or stagnation of any kind. Have rarely known satisfaction, if something is achieved then it is a thing that has bee done with/dealt with- what's next. Often times in my relationships I go out of my way to seek confrontation- even the angst that this generates is a welcome break from the routine of being with a person no matter what the merits of said person maybe. I cannot abide by sameness- and will always try to inject dynamism into a situation- so that something may alter.

So normal or something's amiss?

No .....One more RAHUL BABA ........

HOW AM I LIKE RAHUL DODO?

 

[jaibi]

@Dillinger ..did you watch the videos I posted or just thanked



without horror or ww2 ..they might still be fighting

Actually, I think the Indo-Pak relations can be seen more in terms of Britian and France (Britian ruled parts of france for nearly 250 years). The India-China relations can be better seen as British-German rivalry and had Europeans been smart after WW I there would have been no WW II.

I have never been able to stay put, nor can I bare monotony or stagnation of any kind. Have rarely known satisfaction, if something is achieved then it is a thing that has bee done with/dealt with- what's next. Often times in my relationships I go out of my way to seek confrontation- even the angst that this generates is a welcome break from the routine of being with a person no matter what the merits of said person maybe. I cannot abide by sameness- and will always try to inject dynamism into a situation- so that something may alter.

So normal or something's amiss?



HOW AM I LIKE RAHUL DODO?

Are you Gemini by any chance?

No, everything's normal. You have a problem dealing with sameness in terms of relationships, jobs, life, everything. You probably need to be stimulated by something most of the time, am I correct?

 

[Dillinger]

Actually, I think the Indo-Pak relations can be seen more in terms of Britian and France (Britian ruled parts of france for nearly 250 years). The India-China relations can be better seen as British-German rivalry and had Europeans been smart after WW I there would have been no WW II.



Are you Gemini by any chance?

No, everything's normal. You have a problem dealing with sameness in terms of relationships, jobs, life, everything. You probably need to be stimulated by something most of the time, am I correct?

Taurus.

Yes to the stimulation part! Personally, even intimacy bores me after a while- not the person but what it constitutes. I need some sort of stimulant- anything- so I'll poke and prod everything- see if anything or anyone prods/pokes back.

 

[sms]

HOW AM I LIKE RAHUL DODO?

Taurus.
I need some sort of stimulant- anything- so I'll poke and prod everything- see if anything or anyone prods/pokes back.

Dilli there are many people who might enjoing poking!! Poke ..poke

 

[Dillinger]

@jaibi So what do you think, what characterizes the life I lead?

 

[jaibi]

Taurus.

Yes to the stimulation part! Personally, even intimacy bores me after a while- not the person but what it constitutes. I need some sort of stimulant- anything- so I'll poke and prod everything- see if anything or anyone prods/pokes back.

I see. Dilli, regarding intimacy I must tell you that 1 in 2 couples come to therapy and say they don't enjoy it as much. Actually pornography and our media has given us an image of intimacy which is closer to an LSD trip than intimacy itself. So you finding it 'boring' is actually pretty normal I've had to work really hard for married and intimate couples to realise that intimacy does not really drive for excitment as we are shown in films and other illustrations its main function is to strengthen human bonds.

Regarding your constant need for stimulation. In terms of therapy or counseling I would reccommend that you start meditation (no not the Yoga/religious type unless you're into it) this is purely physiological. Start from relaxing 5 minutes a day, the way to do it is to sit in a peaceful place, close your eyes, and breathe deep, fill your lungs and then puff it out: do it like you're smoking pot. Count your breaths (i.e. every time your diaphram hits your abdomen). You can even lie down on the floor and do it. Just 5 mins! This will make your body become used to relaxation (in terms of neurophysiology) remember this is like exercise: it will be hard at first but stick to it you'll start to enjoy it.

Secondly, you have a lot of enery, you can put it into good use: I would suggest taking up hobbies such as learning painting, playing a musical instrument (I'm sure there are institutions in India) you need to express your stimulation and for that you need to be able to stretch your left-brain! Expressive arts is the best way to go.

Thirdly, I would really advice you to be very very careful when selecting a life partner/intimate partner. Find someone you care for, and who is understanding. You need to talk to her about this aspect because probably you have a tendency to go overboard and cause emotional distress to people whom you poke for stimulation especially if you are close to them. A perfect reciepe for this would be to include her in your expressive arts lesson (she can choose singing and you painting or something it doesn't have to be the same thing as long as you guys get to meet and enjoy and share the experience). You will expand your social cirlce with more expressive people too and that's shown to help.

 

[Dillinger]

I see. Dilli, regarding intimacy I must tell you that 1 in 2 couples come to therapy and say they don't enjoy it as much. Actually pornography and our media has given us an image of intimacy which is closer to an LSD trip than intimacy itself. So you finding it 'boring' is actually pretty normal I've had to work really hard for married and intimate couples to realise that intimacy does not really drive for excitment as we are shown in films and other illustrations its main function is to strengthen human bonds.

Regarding your constant need for stimulation. In terms of therapy or counseling I would reccommend that you start meditation (no not the Yoga/religious type unless you're into it) this is purely physiological. Start from relaxing 5 minutes a day, the way to do it is to sit in a peaceful place, close your eyes, and breathe deep, fill your lungs and then puff it out: do it like you're smoking pot. Count your breaths (i.e. every time your diaphram hits your abdomen). You can even lie down on the floor and do it. Just 5 mins! This will make your body become used to relaxation (in terms of neurophysiology) remember this is like exercise: it will be hard at first but stick to it you'll start to enjoy it.

Secondly, you have a lot of enery, you can put it into good use: I would suggest taking up hobbies such as learning painting, playing a musical instrument (I'm sure there are institutions in India) you need to express your stimulation and for that you need to be able to stretch your left-brain! Expressive arts is the best way to go.

Thirdly, I would really advice you to be very very careful when selecting a life partner/intimate partner. Find someone you care for, and who is understanding. You need to talk to her about this aspect because probably you have a tendency to go overboard and cause emotional distress to people whom you poke for stimulation especially if you are close to them. A perfect reciepe for this would be to include her in your expressive arts lesson (she can choose singing and you painting or something it doesn't have to be the same thing as long as you guys get to meet and enjoy and share the experience). You will expand your social cirlce with more expressive people too and that's shown to help.

True.

Well, I paint, I sketch, I am apeshit about my KVM and bag-work (plenty of energy goes down there). I am always reading, always learning, hell I shouldn't even know half of what I post here in terms of technical info being a CA and all.

As to intimacy, no its not the excitement nor that it does not approximate what has been shown as intimacy by the popular and super-popular (****) modes of media. Its just, how does it matter? A person lost or gained, a relationship formed or broken- its just one plateau for me- neither elation nor sadness just acceptance. Physical arousal is rarely accompanied by any desperation or extreme desire (the latter in terms of "I need this/I must have this")- if say I had to leave at the very moment things were getting hot and heavy I don't feel any sort of disappointment. Although if I am competing with someone then there is plenty of rabid and violent desire/desperation, it reaches a fever pitch.

 

[jaibi]

True.

Well, I paint, I sketch, I am apeshit about my KVM and bag-work (plenty of energy goes down there). I am always reading, always learning, hell I shouldn't even know half of what I post here in terms of technical info being a CA and all.

As to intimacy, no its not the excitement nor that it does not approximate what has been shown as intimacy by the popular and super-popular (****) modes of media. Its just, how does it matter? A person lost or gained, a relationship formed or broken- its just one plateau for me- neither elation nor sadness just acceptance. Physical arousal is rarely accompanied by any desperation or extreme desire (the latter in terms of "I need this/I must have this")- if say I had to leave at the very moment things were getting hot and heavy I don't feel any sort of disappointment. Although if I am competing with someone then there is plenty of rabid and violent desire/desperation, it reaches a fever pitch.

It's great you paint and sketch you are expressing that's not the point, the point's you being able to control it. For that you need to apply control over it and that comes from learning a new skill or improving a skill but drastically. So you should go for it.

Regarding your relationships, Dilli, I strongly think that you have not been struck by a deeper relationship. It is called 'love' but actually its characterisations override the problems you are facing and it's wonderful but it cannot be shown to someone though I am sure you will know when it happens to you and it will. The meaning in the relationship will precede any arousal or even attachment though that's not always the pattern though I think that's what would happen to you.

 

[Dillinger]

It's great you paint and sketch you are expressing that's not the point, the point's you being able to control it. For that you need to apply control over it and that comes from learning a new skill or improving a skill but drastically. So you should go for it.

Regarding your relationships, Dilli, I strongly think that you have not been struck by a deeper relationship. It is called 'love' but actually its characterisations override the problems you are facing and it's wonderful but it cannot be shown to someone though I am sure you will know when it happens to you and it will. The meaning in the relationship will precede any arousal or even attachment though that's not always the pattern though I think that's what would happen to you.

Probable. Ah, this is good. I have a psyche for myself and I am not on the clock.

Oh and one more thing- I somehow don't care too much for any notion of privacy as far as my own person and details are concerned- unless there is say some security issue like an ID or password to something that is related to my work/profession or has a potential of severe misuse- on the other hand an embarrassing instance, action, some less than descent shot of me- all of it is always kosher. I despise keeping secrets, have a standard ordinance out for my friends that I shall not keep any secrets. Never minded anyone poking their nose in.

I have tried to share my interests and hobbies but people in the main are resistant to even the smallest quantum of change- one of the only attributes that bothers me to no end. Although as an addition- often times the poking and prodding is not just for stimulation but also to observe how the person being prodded will react- somehow I love the endless permutations possible regarding how people react to different stimulus under different conditions, same stimulus over a period of time under different conditions...etc..etc.

 

[Dillinger]

@hinduguy Wanna date? Promise I'll keep things fresh.

 

[livingdead]

@hinduguy Wanna date? Promise I'll keep things fresh.

kon hai mera date