As a Pakistani , I have lived a life of over 50 years in which India is seen as arch enemy of Pakistan and I believe it is same across the border on local level. Inside my heart I always have a wish to see normal relations between both Pakistan and India but somehow my inner wish never seem to come true because of one reason or another .
I wish to start this thread asking an honest question pointed towards Indians that what exactly they expect Pakistan to do to normalize relations ? In other words what are their complains regarding Pakistan ?
And following question is that how much India is willing to cooperate with Pakistan in making relations normal ? In other words what advantage can Pakistan have from India in case of normal relations between two countries?
Here I do like to mention that while answering my question Indians should also realize that most of Pakistanis have following complains about India :
1. India has never accepted making of Pakistan and wish to undo the Partition of 1947 and bring back Pak under Hindu dominated control.
2. India has illegally occupied Muslim majority region of Kashmir which should have been part of Pakistan, considering the spirit of Partition in which all Muslim majority regions going to Pakistan and Hindu ones going to India .
3. India is illegally stopping the water from rivers of Kashmir in negation to the Indus Water Treaty of 1960.
4. India has always been supporting anti Pakistan and separatist movements within Pakistan to either weaken or disintegrate Pakistan and making of Bangladesh and current Indian activities to support Baloch , Pashtun, Sindhi , Mohajir separatist movements and terrorist TTP is an example of this .
What do Indians have to say about these complains which Pakistanis have about them and what can they do to negate these feelings in case if Indians are willing to have better relations with Pakistan?
Lets see what kind of response I get on this thread specially from other side of the border .
It is a very good discussion to start with. Here is my answer to your specific question.
1. India has never accepted making of Pakistan and wish to undo the Partition of 1947 and bring back Pak under Hindu dominated control.
- Why did you get an impression that India did not accept Pakistan as a reality. Which of the Gov official of India has stated in any relevant situation that will imply that Indian Gov did not accept Pakistan as a reality? I know that my answer started it with a question. But it is very much surprising to get such kind of answer when i see it repeatedly from Pakistan people...Again, please do not quote me with some of the RSS member saying something silly in this post. As RSS or any other Non Government position people, does not represent the policy of a nation. Their statement are indicative of a broad policy that may be something different than what is implied.
To summarize, Pakistan is a reality and it is rocking smartly since last 70 year. Apart from some part of North India, even most of the NE and South India people do not carry such kind of aggressiveness toward Pakistan uniformly.India may not like Pakistan for some different reason but the reason is not for your existence as a nation....
2. India has illegally occupied Muslim majority region of Kashmir which should have been part of Pakistan, considering the spirit of Partition in which all Muslim majority regions going to Pakistan and Hindu ones going to India .
- Every one knows the official stand of GoI. I do not want to repeat the same story again. The point is Pakistan is not smart enough capture Kashmir and lost in its effort to win it. It is as simple as you may have different excuses. Like the creation of Pakistan itself is a smart and surprise move by Mr Jinah, in the same vein, integrating Jammu Kashmir with India is sign of smartness and shows the capability of India to take control of the situation. Your argument is valid and i respect it in my personal capacity. But honestly, Pakistan missed the boat to occupy Kashmir valley in 1948.
3. India is illegally stopping the water from rivers of Kashmir in negation to the Indus Water Treaty of 1960.
- Again, there is a lot of hype and little substance to this issue. Pakistan went of International court and some ruling has happened. Why such kind of perception is getting created when there is a mechanism to settle the issue. If international court is stipulating something and India is not abiding by the rule, then it may be an issue. But if it s not the case, then i do not see any problem.
Let me have my own narrative of your concern. To understand correctly, Pakistan do not want India to have any mechanism or opportunity where water from Indus can be controlled by India. But think logically, if India has a chance to control the resources, why it will loose this option to have additional layer of control on rivers? As long as India go by the rule book of river treaty, Pakistan has no locus standi to complain about. And knowing well, that Pakistan will always interfere in Kashmir, so India will never loose any opportunity to have score points through many dams on its river.
4. India has always been supporting anti Pakistan and separatist movements within Pakistan to either weaken or disintegrate Pakistan and making of Bangladesh and current Indian activities to support Baloch , Pashtun, Sindhi , Mohajir separatist movements and terrorist TTP is an example of this .
- I am not sure how much Indian RAW is powerful enough to really substantiate your claim. For a moment, let us accept that you are true. Then i would say that these are the after effects or counter balance by India by knowing well that Pakistan will keep on interfering in Kashmir. Pakistan started raiding Kashmir valley since 1948. So your intent was clear from the beginning to have a aggressive relationship with India..And once you open up a chance to interfere in other nation, then you do not have any control of how the other parties will respond to you. This is the same story for India too..
So in all of these points, one thing for sure. We absolutely have no issues with people or nation of Pakistan..Rather, i would like to see all the South Asian nations should develop together with mutual cooperation. I can very well understand and agree to some extent with your claim on Kashmir Valley, but rather than blaming India, you should blame your political or Army leadership who could not win Kashmir for you. No nation on earth today, would just give away a part of the territory due to some people do not like to stay in my country. Pakistan never allowed BD to be a separate nation with out a bloody war with death of hundreds of people..So if Pakistan is really would like to go for a kill in Kashmir, then things will remain as it is today forever.