Dubious
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@seiko@Talon, to be frank, with his ego, he wont be able to do anything in his life.. Just think what if he is in a hostel?? The students there will harass him like hell.. Even in his life, he will be safe till his dad and mum is there but what will happen after that?? I lost my father recently and you have no idea how things changed.. All of a sudden, I have to resign my job and take care of many things at my home.. Even the close relative started showing their true colors. And some of them filed cases for the ownership of the land which rightfully belongs to my father. Sooner or later he will have to face the real world, not some random people in Internet.. He needs to take care of himself and should know how to behave with other people.. The longer he behave like a complete jerk, people continue to bully him..
I know all this...But by bullying him you are just showing him there really is no chance in the world for him! Sorry to hear about your dad...
The thing is ....he is over protected by his parents and has not known life as it is...By bullying him he is only starting off on the wrong foot...
Heck I tell him off too...But I do not harass him only because he looks up to me...Even then, I do not believe in the desi way of bringing up kids through negativity like if you want good grades desi parents insult the grades the kids bring home even if it is 99% they will ask for the 1% ...i know this because I went through it...
Not every child has the capacity to handle it! If not given proper advice he may just get disappointed and end up as a bully because that is what you guys are teaching him!
About his ego...Heck, I was hoping 1 of you have a solution for that...thought of @Hyperion then realized uski ego tou Turkey kay size ki hai!!! Naswarabad mein koi modest insaan hai hi nai jisko hum model bana sakain?!
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