No need to apologize,sincerity makes convesation better.
1.Ukraine was a part of Russia for 90% of its history,it is like to chop Craiova or Sumadija from Romania/Serbia and say"Maybe they want to be part of African union/Euroasian/51 US republic.
That doesnt work.
Ukraine was manipulated in chess game between one side of global triangle(China-Russia-US),US-Russia,like Iran,Syria,Georgia,Serbia in '90s.But culturaly they are part of RussoSlavic civilization.
2.What European future for children?Look at out neighboors Bulgaria,they are real example who one poor country,legally unsettled and poor in economics do in EU.They have population of 9 mln in 1989 today thay have 6 million with 1 million Turkish citizens.And today right wing party flourish in Bulgaria.
My family was a part of "Fifth October" and what we get?13 years of lies,corruption,doomed battle on Kosovo and all of that backed by Pro European gov.