Why is changing name so essential
It is absolutely not essential at all. I mean, using the word essential in that phrase is giving the issue far too much importance.
There are a few things that necessitate a name change. I'll recount some instances where this change was affected:
-there's a companion named birrah, which translates to something like 'the essence of good/goodness embodied'. That's putting yourself higher than humanity. Her name was changed. Similarly if there were somebody called 'evil' it would have mandated the same course of action.
-the Father Of Young Camels Abu Bakr R. A. was named abdul ka3bah - the slave of the ka3abah. That's absurd because you can't be the slave of a house, and it was changed.
waHshii-wild/savage wan't deemed too wild to be changed
-I'm a little doubtful about this one, but a person named Dog was called by nickname or given a secondary name. However, Banu Kalb, the tribe named Children Of The Dog, were still called that, maybe because that person was long gone and you can't change history
-I can't remember well, somebody named 'trash' or thereabouts was given a much nicer name!
What you're witnessing is:
-zealous converts who want to adopt a whole new identity
-zealous community that in their ignorance thinks somehow a convert needs a new name.
We ARE ordered to give our children good names (the best ones being Slave of God and Slave of the Most/Constantly/Exceedingly Merciful), not frivolous ones or those that either over-exalt or demean their status as a human.
It is tradition that a muslims name should be a name that has been written in quran. Atleast that what I was told when my hrandfather was trying to change my name in to Ayşe... Thanks the god that ı don't believe in that he could not
Is that a tradition in Turkiyë? Because it's not a tradition in Islam.
And Ayşe (3aa2ishah) is not a name in the Qur'an. Infact, there's so few names in it that such a tradition would be unsustainable.