BBC has 0 credibility. Woman are expected to get married earliest everywhere in the world. That is why proms are arranged even in school. That is why getting engaged or hooked is considered so lucky even in West. That is why gaggles of women wait eagerly to catch the bouquet thrown by brides in wedding. It is believe the woman who catches the bouquet is the next in line to be married.
Women leaving jobs for home is something desired by women themselves as well as when they have baby in civilized world family is considered more important than career.
What nonsense. Who is denied basic rights? What are basic rights? Are women in India denied food, clothing, shelter? Safety? Do you mean to say Indian govt has a policy to starve Indian women and be without clothes and protection?
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1.)credibility -
if you consider BBC on 0 scale.. fine..
you must be having some concrete parameter to do so
BBC is not holly cow but stand in test of time.
i consider credible because,
1. Researched news 2 . stand against even their own govt ( think about DoorDarshan doing that ) 3. fair 4 . non biased most of the time (not all )
2) women and marriage - west and india..
marriage is bond of body and soul..
early marriages believed because role of women ,
a. was restricted even in west .
b. it was seen more of for reproduction which required early marriage for better fertility ..
WW 2 made women a sort of equal due to their role is changed drastically in society.
before child marriage considers best.. then scientifically age went to 18 plus why - 18 then she can carry a motherhood with minimum hazards.. so again focus is reproduction..and behavioral and mental growth .
but does she not have right to be economical independent ..or pursue higer education which have long gestation perios like doctors..
most of the girl /women leave education / career as compulsion and less by choice..
how many men leave their job when women get transferred to higher position ? not many
how many women leave job when men get transferred and to higer post ? Many
nothing wrong in it..
what imp is , its by her own choice or out of compulsion ?
indian women always consider FAMILY at top so they are always ready to do anything for them..
but now women are getting more education so more opportunities does then men/ society have to change too..?
in india marriage then kids that end of the story of women ...
but now women looking for perosnal space and ambition so marriage become second priority..
2. basic rights of women
govt of india did not discriminate but people do.
indian constitution did equal right to men and women.
but people ( our MPs after 60 yrs too cant pass women reservation bill )
see this,
"Students of Lady Shri Ram College for Women, one of the most progressive colleges in the country, think that women should be inside their homes by 8pm'
Women should be home by 8pm: LSR students - Hindustan Times
why after 8 pm is it curfew for women? are they become terrorist ?
many people had logic in nirbhya case .. why she went with guy.. in evening ? why if girl come in evening then people can whatever they want.?
Indian society is hypocritical..
they worship mata .. but forget to honour the womanhood...
3. civilised world and family
as per your statement "civilized world family is considered more important than career"
then why west have so many marriage and so many divorced.
why divorced rate are increasing in India..
by that standard muslim women (with due respect to them ) are more civilised than any other women as they are the people who give everything (education, personal ambition ) for family
and in west - women will be least civilized as they break up so early and so many divorce..
any society is called civilization only when
"person have free will to express and act (legally )as per his/her choice without any force "
(note: its my personal opinion ,, if anyone feel hurt . i am sorry )
