And I am drawn to a fellow Pakistani in just the same way; for us our nation comes first as well but because our sense of nationhood is inexplicably linked to our religion* for us we don't really face this question of whether its country first or religion because to speak of one is to speak of the other for the vast majority of us.
I am a Kashmiri; a Pakistani Sindhi, Baluch, Pukhtoon, Punjabi or the dozens upon dozens of ethnicities that inhabit Pakistan are my brothers long.....long.....before an Indian Kashmiri is !
In fact if an Indian Kashmiri is Pro-India than a pile a horse sh*t is dearer to me than him. Just saying.
* we didn't go for a separate country because we all speak the same language or we belong to the same ethnic group we did so because we're Muslims and we felt that our rights as Muslims were being denied. So the Pakistani identity and the Islamic notion of Nationhood that transcends race, color, ethnicity, language etc. are pretty much interwoven with each other.
That is both our strength and our weakness.