1. I have been a new member but have been following this forum for close to a decade, so I know you POV ,
2. I know there are massive flaws in BJP / its leadership / Sangh but that does not mean a rational person will chose Samajwadi or Congress , humans tend to chose better alternatives if best is not available,
3. None in the opposition has a vision, what does congress stand for or what causes samajwadi stand for , there is no strategy there is no mission, even AAP is solving local problems but their vision of India is not there. BJPs or RSS have NAZI approach of hyper nationalism is flawed but they have something. New age BJP followers are not hindtva followers, they eat beef , they are not religious, they don't want temple or go to teme, they date , they plan valintine , they create value they want build brand India,
you can always find exceptions but what I present is behaviour of majority (generalization)
And finally on the talent pool inclination, what you told about experience is just a distraction from the point,
Let's set a super high bench mark,
There is 88 unicorns in India, so obviously their leaders are well read and are exceptional decision makers
if you ask their CEOs to chose between Modi and Akhilesh or Modi Vs Rahul, what do you think will be the share
You are mature well read, you know the reality but the hate inside you is not letting you accept the right side