Advice from Adults please

[Porbot]

Assalamu Alaikum and Nomoshkar. GURU jons, I need your advice regarding something. I only told my mom and did not have the courage to tell my dad and ashamed to tell anyone else. The thing is I am in my twenties. I want to get married. For various reason I fell behind in my studies so I am still student. The reason I want to get married is because, It will make me more pious, successful, give and take love and emotion, share life and others. You see, in west there are a lot distraction because of female, specially in the summer. Now I have my needs. My mom said if I find someone, she will help me getting married. But my dad is adament about me finishing my studies then get married. also I have another problem and that is I can't approach a girl. I am very shy. What should I do, please advice me...

 

[Safriz]

Welcome to PDF matrimonial.
@KRAIT .is the hottest girl on our forum,you may get some training by trying to chat her up.
Good luck.

 

[Yeti]

Well I would say to you that you should complete your studies first before you get married as the girls family will ask what is your level of education, degree etc. My next advice is that you should chat to girls on a friend level with no strings so you can overcome your shyness and gain more in confidence. Yes we all have needs it is human nature lol and in summer things can get pretty heated

 

[Kompromat]

Good decision,i hope you find a great wife.

 

[Porbot]

Well I would say to you that you should complete your studies first before you get married as the girls family will ask what is your level of education, degree etc. My next advice is that you should chat to girls on a friend level with no strings so you can overcome your shyness and gain more in confidence. Yes we all have needs it is human nature lol and in summer things can get pretty heated

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa I think it won't work because I am already a student...many students are married you know....

 

[Spring Onion]

if you cant approach a girl and shy then why you are worried about liberal attitude in the west ? you should not be distracted by the girls there then since you dont have guts to approch them.


secondly just pack your bags come back to Bangladesh and complete your studies and then take job and get married.


or just get married in Canada take up citizenship there and you wont be able to look at another lady there its a crime

 

[Yeti]

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa I think it won't work because I am already a student...many students are married you know....

mmm well why you wish to get married so young? you should get a gf and enjoy life being a student I know I did lol

 

[A.Rafay]

Good idea, Get Married early i think i will be fun fun fun and fun, im only 18 BTW, i also dont have a girlfriend, Now im laughing hard LOL, Get advice From Some tharkies on this forum @ImranKhan @JonAsad

 

[Yeti]

You youngsters think getting married early is fun lol good luck! hope you enjoy screaming babies and paying bills

 

[dollarman]

Assalamu Alaikum and Nomoshkar. GURU jons, I need your advice regarding something. I only told my mom and did not have the courage to tell my dad and ashamed to tell anyone else. The thing is I am in my twenties. I want to get married. For various reason I fell behind in my studies so I am still student. The reason I want to get married is because, It will make me more pious, successful, give and take love and emotion, share life and others. You see, in west there are a lot distraction because of female, specially in the summer. Now I have my needs. My mom said if I find someone, she will help me getting married. But my dad is adament about me finishing my studies then get married. also I have another problem and that is I can't approach a girl. I am very shy. What should I do, please advice me...

You dad is right, having a GF is enough of a distraction to your studies when you are in university, having a wife/family while in school is a whole new level of responsibilities.

As for approaching girls, just go upto them and talk to them. Shyness is something that only you can solve.

 

[RazPaK]

Get married asap.

 

[Black Widow]

I don't have GF , thats how I get time for PDF.. ::

 

[hunter_hunted]

I don't have GF , thats how I get time for PDF.. ::

Seems like we both are Lone wolfs. Aman shanti ha bhai

 

[Punjabbi Munda]

You wanna get married?Think again

 

[farhan_9909]

take nrop tablet to control your emotions...