A Chinese Virtue Is Now the Law

[Aepsilons]

Yeah, this is a serious problem, the family need successors...damn, I forget!

My father and mother have 4 children. I'm the eldest, i have a younger sister who is 27, a younger brother who is 21, and the youngest is 15. Our sister is the darling of my parents, but it is us the 3 sons that will continue our Family Lineage. Especially the Family Name.

WATANABE FAMILY CREST

Yes. I will tell you.
The problem is that the one who control birth is wife. She will be very tried, and very painful for each birth.
I have to persuade wife for next child. I
It is not wise to force or intimidate wife for the next child because she can always eat some pills without notifying you.
It takes me 3 years to persuade my wife for 3rd kid. Now she agreed. But now she is 37 years old. So its not easy anymore. I've been working hard (like 6-7 times a month LoL) for my 3rd kid for 8 months now. But still not come.

My advice if you want 4 children: Have your 1 child when your wife is 26-28.

That's a good advice @somsak . My father always stress to me to find a Japanese woman to marry. He is very big into keeping the blood pure, but my mother is more open minded. lol.

 

[Edison Chen]

lol, Mr.渡边! What's that character below 渡边？Is it 家？

You have a happy family, all the best to you all.

 

[Aepsilons]

lol, Mr.渡边! What's that character below 渡边？Is it 家？

You have a happy family, all the best to you all.

^^ Arigaodou Gozaimasu, Chen-Senpai !

It is so hard to find a Japanese here in New Jersey. Only so many Italian-Americans, German-Americans, Irish-American haha!

If I marry a 外国人 [外侨], well...i hope my father accepts !!!




PS. What about you? Planning to marry soon ?

lol, Mr.渡边! What's that character below 渡边？Is it 家？

Yes, it is written as:

渡辺

 

[Edison Chen]

^^ Arigaodou Gozaimasu, Chen-Senpai !

It is so hard to find a Japanese here in New Jersey. Only so many Italian-Americans, German-Americans, Irish-American haha!

If I marry a 外国人 [外侨], well...i hope my father accepts !!!




PS. What about you? Planning to marry soon ?



Yes, it is written as:

渡辺

Yes, Japanese tend to stay home, fewer going abroad, I find. The most are Indians, followed by Chinese, then comes the Koreans.

I am only 24, I will wait for the destined one, but it takes time.

 

[Aepsilons]

I am only 24, I will wait for the destined one, but it takes time.

You are young , still. Sift through the wheat, my friend.

 

[JSCh]

I am surprise to see Japanese 渡边 use the simplified/行草/script/cursive form for 边 instead of 邊.
All the words in there are written in script calligraphic form so maybe Japanese like that form.

 

[Edison Chen]

You are young , still. Sift through the wheat, my friend.

I will.

Marriage is the grave of love.

 

[BoQ77]

Yes. I will tell you.
The problem is that the one who control birth is wife. She will be very tried, and very painful for each birth.
I have to persuade wife for next child. I
It is not wise to force or intimidate wife for the next child because she can always eat some pills without notifying you.
It takes me 3 years to persuade my wife for 3rd kid. Now she agreed. But now she is 37 years old. So its not easy anymore. I've been working hard (like 6-7 times a month LoL) for my 3rd kid for 8 months now. But still not come.

My advice if you want 4 children: Have your 1 child when your wife is 26-28.

Wife age : married at 24-25
1st child : 25
2nd child : 28
3rd child : 31
4th child : 34
or 1st child 26-27
2nd child 29-30
3rd child 32-33

stop giving birth after 35 yo

 

[somsak]

My father and mother have 4 children. I'm the eldest, i have a younger sister who is 27, a younger brother who is 21, and the youngest is 15. Our sister is the darling of my parents, but it is us the 3 sons that will continue our Family Lineage. Especially the Family Name.

WATANABE FAMILY CREST



That's a good advice @somsak . My father always stress to me to find a Japanese woman to marry. He is very big into keeping the blood pure, but my mother is more open minded. lol.

Good! I always advocate procreation for East and South East Asia people.
Your family logo is very cool. It looks like 3 eyes smiling face.

 

[Aepsilons]

Filial Piety in China
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Qingming Festival is when Chinese people visit the graves or burial grounds of their ancestors.


The Qingming Festival is an opportunity for celebrants to remember and honor their ancestors in their ancestral tombs. Young and old pray before the ancestors, sweep the tombs and offer food, tea, wine, chopsticks, joss paper accessories, and/or libations to the ancestors. The rites have a long tradition in Asia, especially among farmers. Some people carry willow branches with them on Qingming or put willow branches on their gates and/or front doors. They believe that willow branches help ward off the evil spirit that wanders on Qingming.

beautiful example

honoring one's ancestors

beautiful,

 

[Edison Chen]

wow such a wise guy. It's like nobody knows this. This guy needs to get more thanks guys he deserve it.



Why are you forgetting things like that? you deserve a slap.

You are the second brazen viets on my ignore list.

 

[vtnsx]

You are the second brazen viets on my ignore list.

What did I do to you? don't cry! I'm not trying to hurt u. Why you so sensitive? lol

 

[halupridol]

sorry to hear this,,,i thought family is very important for the chinese just like us Indians

 

[Chronos]

You are young , still. Sift through the wheat, my friend.

what about Jyoti in your Church group? asked her out yet

 

[Aepsilons]

what about Jyoti in your Church group? asked her out yet

She's like a sister to me ^^

PS. Wow, you remembered that eh! lol