Well, stats dont speak so...Over the last decade, Indian tourism has steadily grown and continues to grow...Currently, tourism in India generated $100Billion in 2008 and is expected to grow 3 times its size by the end of the decade...
Below are the stats for inbound foreign tourists
Foreign Tourists In India (Number)
2001 2002 2003 2004 2005 2006 2007 2008
January 283750 228150 274215 337345 385977 459489 532088 584765
February 262306 227529 262692 331697 369844 439090 498806 560658
March 248965 225558 218473 293185 352094 391009 444186 509926
April 185338 155378 160941 223884 248416 309208 333945 369677
May 151098 132998 141508 185502 225394 255008 267758 290785
June 176716 143100 176324 223122 246970 278370 310104 344526
July 224432 186432 225359 272456 307870 337332 377474 -
August 196517 161477 204940 253301 273856 304387 360089 -
September 162326 151721 191339 226773 257184 297891 325893 -
October 181605 212191 260569 307447 347757 391399 440715 -
November 209685 243566 290583 385238 423837 442413 510987 -
December - - 319271 417527 479411 541571 575148 -
Total 2282738 2073025 2726214 3457477 3918610 4447167 4977193 2660337
So if India is unsafe for women, then what explains the ever growing tourism in India?? If the situation was as bad as you make it out to seem, then dont you think you would see an effect?
Now compare these stats to Pakistan.....Lets see how many people feel Pakistan is "safe"