Not only is this physically bad for the women who start having knee problems in their late 50's but psychologically they have to deal with cheating husbands which they think is normal due to their appearance or worse have to deal with a religiously sanctioned second wife.
Better that than his uncountable mistress which keep changing every month! Which mind you is clinically dangerous!
Not sure why only 4 are allowed if we go with following the example of our prophet.
Where are you from again? I have yet to hear even a Qadyani say that!
But anyway .. Their world revolves around their TV sets, or cooking or sleeping and gossiping.
That is culture nothing to do with Islam...Had they stuck with Islam, they wouldn't gossip, they would be allowed to study or work, Sayiddina Kathijah was a working woman...while Sayiddina Ayesha and other sahabi used to study (back then religion) but during the golden age women were allowed to study......So, staying at home is slightly cultural - probably Asian!
Well, mind you most prefer to stay at home because it is a "relaxed life"...I am a hijabi, working, studying and practicing Muslim in a foreign land...I know a few Saudi girls from my class who do the same back in their countries (Libya, Iraq, Iran, Oman, Saudi) and even in Saudi Arabia...Bad example, but still Saudi allowing it is a BIG BIG DEAL!
The examples I gave are of women whom I know from my BSc to my MSc....all studying and working, some married...few whining about how they prefer to stay at home...
When you start your chewing
my head over my "personal" observation, note that you can try taking a notepad and doing a survey of 100 burqa women and coming to your own conclusion.
Mind you, there are plenty of Burqa women in London, Birmingham, Manchester and Wales...So, basically it is an Asian hatred towards these things and no do not give me that the tv shows something else...THOSE rubbish people are a minority who say silly things...reality is VERY different!
And about them becoming fat and ugly, that is slightly their fault because Islam does not say sit at home and become fat and ugly, it says seek knowledge even if you have to go to China! It further says keep yourself attractive FOR YOUR HUSBAND...
You are doing hijab so that your husband is the ONLY special one who gets to see you in your true beauty...
What should be his punishment? I understand people were living a desert live then so death was the easy solution.. But don't you think 22 years is enough?
Nope, life is not soo cheap!
If they wanted to jail him...also try to reform him...but in between these 22 years, he may behave a bit and be freed earlier because that is how their laws are!