That is the Indian way of looking at things. Not theirs. I won't say Pakistani way because for you guys there is only really one religion, and no question of making fun of that!
The Indian way is of not overstepping one's bounds and not provoking. So what if every little thing will provoke and we will be up in arms demonstrating, burning, breaking, protesting. The alternative, when someone really goofs up, is killing.
That is not the way of the West. They value their freedom of speech. And one cannot accuse them of being one sided because as most commentators have been at pains to explain, they do it for their own dominant faith, Christianity, as well.
It is their society. It is their laws. It is their lines.
Don't project your own lines on to them. It will not work. In fact it will make things a lot worse. To prove a point. How many more will the nut jobs of yours kill, before European society has enough, their tolerance reaches breaking point, and then your community SERIOUSLY feels the backlash?
Remember, it was Europe that did the Jews. And the way I see it, Muslims are heading in pretty much the same direction. A century does not change the basic DNA of a people.