As a Pakistani living abroad, I've come to realize one thing: I don't feel affiliated with other Pakistanis just because they're Pakistanis.
Even when living in Pakistan, I only felt affiliated with Pakistanis who think like me.
They have to share my ideology/philosophy to be my friend. It's not that I don't respect other people's opinions, but I just don't feel close to people who think in ways that I feel are not my kind of thinking.
Likewise for Turks, Europeans, Arabs, Iranians, Indians or any other. If they think like me and are open-minded, then i can get along just fine with them.