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Well... i've never been in a position like that because my parents have never found out. And generally, they are quite liberal. If they ever found out, they would just pressure me into forgetting about her. They wouldn't take any drastic measures.

I don't know if your parents would kick your a$$ or not, but I think you should be straightforward. Tell them how you met each other through 'studies' or something but lie about being BF/GF.

Tell your gf to say the same story if your parents ask her. Dont be afraid and prepare yourself.



In Pakistan, he'd probably beat down to a pulp. His parents would go :taz: on him.

Yaar i never got caught either, never in Pakistan and never over here. I always cover my tracks very well, but i guess luck wasnt on my side today :hitwall:. My parents are not liberal at all, they are very conservative. I have already talked to my brother and told him to make up bull sh** like he has met the girl, and we are just friends and blah blah blah. Lets hope he takes care of the situation.
 
^^ very mature, SU-47 gets to wear big boy pants :)
 
Yaar i never got caught either, never in Pakistan and never over here. I always cover my tracks very well, but i guess luck wasnt on my side today . My parents are not liberal at all, they are very conservative. I have already talked to my brother and told him to make up bull sh** like he has met the girl, and we are just friends and blah blah blah. Lets hope he takes care of the situation.

Oh come on now kido , they aint gona hand you over to those talibans or to wahabi extreemists who would literally flog the death out of you a$$ :rofl:
 
Yaar i never got caught either, never in Pakistan and never over here. I always cover my tracks very well, but i guess luck wasnt on my side today :hitwall:. My parents are not liberal at all, they are very conservative. I have already talked to my brother and told him to make up bull sh** like he has met the girl, and we are just friends and blah blah blah. Lets hope he takes care of the situation.

You and your gf will need to know that story so that if they ask you you or her you guys wont make a mistke
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Yup ..!!! wats the point ..:)

They sent her to that taliban area didnt they? :/
 
I am just wondering why a french hottie is interested in Defense site!Hotties are usually on myspace, facebook etc. ( I am assuming DBC is a french hottie!)
 
If you r serious about your girlfriend, u will have to tell your parents sometime. Might as well make it now.

If u r not serious, or u aren't sure yet, just tell them that this is the 21st century and being sexually active before marriage isn't a crime.

I think its better to be honest with your parents than deceiving them. Though they shouldn't control your life, I think they should still know you for who you are.

My parents don't always agree to everything I do or the way I live, but I tell them what's going on in my life. So at least they know me for who I am. If they disagree with something I do, we discuss it and try to find a solution together.

Just my thoughts.


Great and best advice.

@notorious_eagle

If you are in a serious relationship, you need to tell your parents the truth. Don't feel guilty as you are not doing anything wrong, just that your parents are too conservative. Obviously they will not like it at first, but will understand it. After all they are your parents.

And if it is not a serious relationship and you are just satisfying your needs I don't think you need to tell them anything. Just inform the girl about your parents and ask her not to make the same mistake again. I just hope she is also not serious :lol:
 
I second that.You're 18 yeas old now so i imagine you have what is required (if not, then grow a pair) to face these kind of situation.If you still think you can't grow a pair then its your own fault.You should not be with a girlfriend then.You should stay single your whole damn life.Sorry for being harsh.You are just acting like a pussy.
 
Great and best advice.

@notorious_eagle

If you are in a serious relationship, you need to tell your parents the truth. Don't feel guilty as you are not doing anything wrong, just that your parents are too conservative. Obviously they will not like it at first, but will understand it. After all they are your parents.

And if it is not a serious relationship and you are just satisfying your needs I don't think you need to tell them anything. Just inform the girl about your parents and ask her not to make the same mistake again. I just hope she is also not serious :lol:

agree .......... and also make sure if your parents belong to Tribal Areas and you had sexual relationships with her...... do not even think of going back to Pakistan :rofl: if not then no worries...... just take some courage and convince your parents to marry you with her. You are old enough to get married afterall you are 18 years old now and if you have courage to have illegal SEX then why not take her responsibilities also by marrying her and enjoy Legally under the boundaries of your religion and with respect. There is nothing wrong in it just convince your parents and wish you best of luck

If that is only time pass love like i used to do :rofl: without any such relationships then all is ok..... just tell your gf not to pick up your phone next time
 
Some guy i know seen a ghost, i guess he was driving through a cemetary and a ghost crossed the road. I also have a friend that claims he was haunted, one night he woke up and seen a man, in his 30's wearing a black suit standing over his bed, no one beleived him un tell his mom seen the same man. My step sisters grandmother was a whitch, every time they came over to her home they would see black apparitions, sometimes doors would slam shut and not let them leave, it was strange too because this whitch never told anyone her age and she had all of the witch features big nose with a mole and jet black hair.

Sleep tight.
 
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