A boy is raised different than a girl, at least from grade 8, or puberty on wards if not before.
First of all before I engage in this conversation: Can we agree on the fact that boys and girls are different from each other?
The male child at the same time, is exposed to the world and develops personality traits which are based on the foreign influences. Thus causing a gulf between the female and male child.
Because men have to go out and hunt down a deer for dinner, that's the reason why they need to go out and do all the networking and stuff to get along in society, so their womenfolk can have a more easy life.
From henceforth until graduation the male child keeps experiencing and developing newer experiencing, and the gulf between the male and female keeps increasing.
Boys and girls should be educated, no ifs or buts.
The rude awakening to reality comes when it time for marriage, and the family sets a match based on what they think the boy and the girl are like, and what they aspire. This maybe true in case of a female child, but is not the case in case of the male child who has had strong influences since he went past grade 10.
There are no guarantees in life. But yes, a girl born and raised in Bradford with a law degree shouldn't be nagged or forced into marrying her backwards village cousin from Pakistan.
The girl's vision is mostly restricted to the "home" and considers the home her universe and battle space should her position be challenged or she should choose to challenge the mother or sisters in law.
Unpopular popluar opinion: a womans place is her home and her children.
The 50% of the population's inability to change, eventually drags the whole society down, impeding growth or exploration of newer paradigms.
50% of the population take care of the future 100% of the population and: the more affluent a society, the more women tend to go back to the "traditional" family model.
But the main point I wanted to make is that muslims cannot progress until the 50% is brought at same pace as the other 50%.
Same pace? Men and women are different.
The thing is: we all have the notion that Muslim women are opressed and the vicitims of evil men, even though all "evil" Muslim men were raised by a Muslim woman. See, I can give you a recent example from my family. My wife and I tried to have a baby for years, a few years back we went to Turkey for vacation and my wife posted pictures of us in our big family WahtsApp group. My phupo commented: "itni patli ho, koi khushkhabri nhi?" (meaning: you are so skinny, no good news? Saying: why aren't you pregnant yet?). She later called my father and badmouthed my wife and said to him that she can't conceive and his cursed or something like that and recommended him to tell me to divorce my wife and marry her daughter instead. Fun fact: she had 2 still born baby boys and 1 miscarriage at the beginning of her marriage and I know how she begged her mother in law not to kick her out, because she said to her that she deliberately killed the baby boys just to have 3 daughters later (she has 5 kids, 3 daugthers, 2 sons who came later). The mother in law is against baby girls as grandchildren and she tells my father to tell me to divorce my wife for not having 50 children in 3 years. Such women can have all the education of the world, they still will be trash.
We need to educate our kids and make them decent people with basic manners. Then we can teach them general relativity or how to repair a car.
Women who behave like "Guys" are major turn off
Nobody of our brown knights would marry such a woman, but they just repeat the slogans of the West.
When my father came to Germany, we struggled really hard to make ends meet. My daddy NEVER said to my mother that she should go out and get a job like most women from Turkey do. Latter are the reason btw. why a headscarf is ultimately associated with a cleaning job, but this is a story for another time. My friend from University (Turkish guy) had a family reunion two years ago and the first thing he did was to get his wife a cleaning job in a super market. Much wow! My dad worked hard and did everything he could do to support us. My mother was busy raising us kids and today all of her kiddies went to university and have decent job now.
I make six figures and I don't want my wife to work in low-skilled job, because she doesnt need to. But what I do is that I pay for all the German courses she needs and her goal is to get a German school leaving certificate because you need smart moms to raise smart kids. The ultimate goal is it to study in a important field (doctor it is
) and make something great. Sorry, working as a cashier lady is not a career, working as secretary for another man is not a career.
And the West is not great today because of its womenfolk working or being allowed to fornicate with trees and dogs, they have free markets, they support individual rights. We have family socialism and state socialism and collectivism (dada abbu owns everything and everybody has to give him money once in a while or he will curse you).
Women working? Yes! But only in fields they were are desperately needed, no need to push a housewife to become a cashier at Aldi or Tesco just for the applause of some White perverts.
