hmm... "forcing" someone to be a Genghis Khan. We already know every barbarian has an excuse.
Well, that's a problem with humanity itself.
I look at it in this way.
See when a Tiger, Lion, Jaguar, Leopard etc. kills, they have this killing in their eyes, they are hungry, they are in a frenzy.
Look at Reptiles doing that, there is nothing, nothing good or bad in their eyes (actually animals are never bad in a human sense) but crocodiles tearing apart something, no matter the victim is making noises or not (depends on how large/strong the croc is and where it bites first etc.) the crocodile works like a machine.
And that is the thing.
We say this/that is "humanly", this/that is a rule.
I can understand Taliban who fight the way they are doing it. Because they would be completely obliterated in a open battle, with uniforms, their technicals and maxium a few BMP-1/2, T-55/62. They could do nothing except going to their paradise with this rule-based-fighting-way.
So they have their style, according to their rules.
Civilian clothes, not clear visible patches etc.
But then they are LUCKY that Americans aren't rounding up the males in the village where a classical Taliban attack happened.
TBH, today there are really no reasons to execute randomly 10+ civs for a partisan attack, you can check who used a rifle, can enforce rules before things like that escalate (forgery-proof and remotely readable passports, fast testing smoke traces testers, killing/free fire zones in remote areas (with drones) AFTER 2 weeks of warnings etc.)
So the Americans are, because of their based values, castrating themselfes in order to obey the(ir) rules (mostly).
They are at disadvantages against the Taliban who make their own rules.
You can't really get them in a sense that it would make a difference.
That's a problem, for the Westerns who are there (arguable).
I personal don't care if they Taliban house OsamaBinBathing, why shouldn't I, he attacked Murrica, not Germany.
Otherwise the Americans had other ways to get him instead of wasting so much money (and lifes, of all sides).