JK,
I think another huge difference (if we are talking about COIN tactics for Pakistan) between Israel and Pakistan is that Israelis are fine living segregated from those whom they are fighting. The tactics, measures, means, weapons are all deployed accordingly and get approved by the Israeli society (and recently even by the Israeli supreme court). For Pakistan this sort of approval is an impossibility as the tribals that need to be brought back to "rahay-raast" are part and parcel of the Pakistani nation. You cannot use excessive force, you cannot carry on with targeted killings indefinitely and you cannot build a 16 ft high wall between the tribal areas and the rest of Pakistan hoping to protect the mainland while you prosecute a COIN campaign against them.
So tactically, you can learn from the Israelis to a certain extent, but strategically, their handling of the Palestinians has backfired and will continue to backfire. What Pakistan needs is a hybrid solution where force, political, economic and socials incentives are used in unison. This is the only way out. Forget thinking about beating these guys into submission. It will not happen. What GoP can do is put enough military pressure so that they have a better leverage on the negotiations to follow than the tribals. Beyond that, its deft diplomacy which would yield the results.