So whats your solution to that sitting on your fat butt the whole day long going through plant, manure & CSI !
Go out & have a great time, bump into a couple of guys & start a conversation - Who knows maybe you guys might actually start to like each other once the conversation kicks in !
Otherwise be resigned to the fate of a 50 something year old lady living alone who teaches at the local University in the mornings, works her vegetable garden in the afternoons before watching a sitcom in the evenings surrounded by her cats whilst sipping on cabbage soup !