Indeed, its not worth it friend. You can have the most perfect neutral mods/powers/admins in some setup/inception.... but in the end lot of stuff simply has to be left to be fleshed out with the perspective of reality and truth...with whatever equilibrium system sets up then.
We live in a larger imperfect world. We have made, make and will make imperfect choices as result day in and day out...so it would be no different for any of its microcosms anywhere.
Thus far more is gleamed in the end letting things shape up as they do, and simply pointing better eyes to it to make better conclusions about certain things.... than worry too much about the management of process/filter/settling of info/discourse (i.e achieving something better/perfect versus what someone else sees as better/perfect in his opinion) and all that.
In the end you simply have to leave things shake up and settle as they do past some point (and choose and offer battle wisely on that)....rather than extreme worry about where every single particle settles and arranges.
You must put strong trust in those you hold in high regard (as trusting yourself to make that determination to begin with is extremely important to have basic society). In many cases their ships have been out in both stormy and calmer waters far far longer than yours....they can read the weather and signs much better. There are thus things that become more apparent to them if you let them just observe and reflect with results/reality on ground...because they learned it of own accord/volition rather than you directing them there somewhat more forcefully etc. i.e Basic friendship and respect stuff.
They can readily see (and if interested...understand more on, especially with time) those that dream and project whatever gibberish after themselves being inflicted by such by their own doing, continued failing to come to gripes with that...and then all their continued coping mechanisms for the clear underlying reason. Things like historical revisionism, extreme "bro-ing" complex and even doubling or tripling up on all of that or more and all the mental gymnastics from that on display. Then coming to the awkward reality and consequent reaction that (some or even many) purported bro's can think differently on it all esp outside some safe bro-space....because of larger reality.
Dissonance is cruel...delusion is often the panacea. Just leave it be for those that crave it and are hooked on it.
Someone can blab here all about selective extreme-cherrypicked "genetics" with 1000s of posts and chip on shoulder about it...... all the while one of his purported "iron-bros" can tell me they all look the same to him in just cpl seconds elsewhere lol...and show me pictures from his real life to prove it. Its super funny in the end.
It's why they are shown the door quickly at any actual convention or professional science or history gathering about anything regarding this (if they even manage to somehow jump through the earlier hoops needed)...and then they concoct and assert conspiracy theories to explain that all away too. Hot air needs to chase more hot air. You can find plenty of it in a safe space to hearts desire....actual neutral credible setting is far far different. Its part of why such types often find this a nice refuge (and its a larger phenomenon on the internet too for all types I must say)....and hate even slightest opposition to their cacophony. Make and try solidify in here, what you cant do out there. Old silly game, just the settings/names have changed with time.