waz
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God Bless you & Bhabi !
No you're right....waisee tou I've also strong....strong marriages all around me but more than anything its the thought of a man loosing much of his freedom & that his day-to-day living sees him reduced to the role of a human ATM machine that bothers me !
I mean I've seen so many cousins & some older friends who used to be the most out-going of people & we used to grab our cars & voila what do you know we're in Murree & back the next day....but now most of them have commitments & not only terms of family ones but job commitments piling up because you have to practically kill yourself at work to get that one more promotion before attaining some peace of mind & having the money to pay off those rising bills that everyone has after marriage - And before they know it....its been years since they actually....truly had some 'alone' time for themselves to do what they want to do !
I just don't like that !
Thanks for the kind words bro.
Your post can be summed up with the classic "keeping up with the jones" or "keeping up with the neighbours". We chase after duniyah 24 hours a day. You are right there is more to life. Take time out and reach out to others.