They are the same, but you cannot accept because you want to protect 'Ideology of Pakistan' that was introduced by Pakistani Army in 1960s.
Jinnah never said about looks or race. He only talk about religion. But later race also added by racial supremacist Pakistani Army people who say that Pakistanis fair and hindus dark. Total rubbish.
India is happy with border. We don't want Pakistan. But we would appreciate if you recognize the fact. No harm in that. Pakistan will not disappear if you appreciate fact. But maybe the radical nationalist element would become weak and it will be better for future of Pakistan.
Bangladesh also free country, but they don't teach that Bangladesh people are different race from Indians.
There is nothing wrong in acknowledging if one is dark or not, I myself has seen many european looking green eyed indian beauties but on average indians are darker than pakistanis, just as punjabis are darker than pushtun. Why do you want us to accept what we are not and we will never be. History has shown bangladeshis and indians have always remain united, bengalis have the same culture, tradition, language except religion, they are your people, but pakistanis are not your people. Pakistan is a natural extension of central asia.