My co-worker who is Chinese told me -
ABC in China means - American Born Chinese .. and guess what I told him
ABCD in India means American Born Confused Desi..
He literally was in stitches
I have observed that the only ambition in the lives of of the Chinese women is to marry Anglo American men so that they can get rid of their Chinese identity and their children would become Anglo Americans with no strings of Chinese identity attached to them. Upon seeing any Anglo expats or tourists in China, even Chinese women from remote areas never miss the chance of seducing the Anglo men so that they can become their wives, let alone those Chinese women in USA already.
Indian women, on other other hand, never want to marry Anglo Americans and always prefer Indian/Desi men as husbands so that their Indian identity remains intact and the origin of their children remains Indian. Even Indian women in USA always prefer Indian men as husbands.
This is my own observation and I could be wrong though.