Not all turks are like this.
although rare cases but i knew 3 people who had this happened to them. its not the same in each case. very few marraiges fail in my opinion. if there is no visa or travel issue i don't think marriages would break with chinese people.
well i don't know about every case ofcourse, but people of gilgit baltistan marry alot in xinjiang. but there were a few cases in 2005 and before of Afghan and pakistani pashton men marrying xinjiang chinese uyghur women and then after brining them home from china, they sold them to other people
uyghur xinjiang people are also conservative and bold just like people we have variety of in pakistan, not everyone is the same. i have 5 classmates who married with xinjiang women and they have marriages over 5 years till now. so in my personal experience with close friends and their friends i have not seen marriages failing.
i personally have had only one girlfriend from china, she is from Shenyang city liaoning china she is han converted to islam because she Read the meaning of Ayat Ul Kursi, she was facinated by it, she read the Quran herself and was convinced that it was the truth. we might get married this year. in 2019 i had a domestic agreement with her and her parents.
i guess Marriages with Uyghurs or central asians is just about the same as any international marriage. some uyghurs are conservative some pakistaniz are
i have 2 friends who are married in Hong kong with chinese also. they have super cool looking kids. we kashmiriz and chinese Mix together to make beautiful babies
yes cross culture marraiges are very hard to keep. especially if the cultures are 360 degree differnt like Pakistan and USA or Europe in general. but xinjiang and pakistan have very less differences.
so much difference but differnce can be good as well not always negative. Marriages with in our own communities and cultures also fail. i guess i will quote you something From my Dad, He said " Marriages work if you Keep loving each other and if you love each other u will forgive short comings in the Marriage".
Understandble I hope and pray Asians keep their traditions and family matters strong as we prosper and grow,Asia as a whole is going through a lot of Changes my brother, not just East but all its imperative that we keep our traditions alive the more we prosper easy for subversion via movies,tv and now the internet to spoil that.yes cross culture marraiges are very hard to keep. especially if the cultures are 360 degree differnt like Pakistan and USA or Europe in general. but xinjiang and pakistan have very less differences.
biggest culture difference is between typical Han chinese and typical ME pakistani
in pakistan and china Breaking marriages are Taboo of sort considered very bad culturally. a wife chinese or pakistani would try her best to keep the marriage for sake of her reputation and her family etc etc . in the west marriages are easy to break , women have equal confidence in their rights. they have no compulsion to keep a failed relationship . in every marriage there are weak moments if u have an easy way out like in the west , people tend to take the easy way out. end the fuss and compromises and bad feelings.
in our cultures EAST (India Pakistan china) marriages tend to be longer and fail less if you live in india pakistan or china. our people in west break marriages easily too. that's my take on the matter.
